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Author:  Kupid [ Sat Nov 17, 2012 12:04 am ]
Post subject:  Rapport breaking ???

Sup bitches, I need some opinion on this, preferable from senior forum members :P

You meet a girl and you are not showing interest to her, you're not all over her and you're also not ignoring her, you are being normal...... so she starts showing interests to you, after you start to get to know her you also show interest into her, becuase.... well fuck you like something about her... but as soon as that happens she starts breaking rapport with you..... WHY?..... optional solutions?

Author:  Snarg [ Sat Nov 17, 2012 1:45 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Rapport breaking ???

How exactly are you showing interest in her? You might be coming on too strongly.

The goal is to never allow her to feel as though she's completely won you over. Don't ever let her feel too comfortable. That's where push-pull comes into play. Give her a compliment, then pull away a bit. It will cause her to wonder what's really going on. On one hand, you gave her a compliment; but on the other, you're showing a slight amount of disinterest. The same method can be applied with touching. You can put your arm around her for a brief period of time, then distance yourself completely. This will create a formidable challenge for her and will keep her pretty far up your ass because she'll be trying so hard to win you over.

Author:  Estate [ Sat Nov 17, 2012 6:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Rapport breaking ???

What do you mean exactly by breaking rapport?

If she breaks rapport, its a GOOD thing, it means she likes you. Why do you need a solution?
Breaking rapport means teasing, call her dorky or a nerd with a smile on your face. She knows you're joking and it makes things fun and breaks the serious conversation into being fun.

If by breaking rapport... you mean she shows DISINTEREST when you show DIRECT INTEREST then you probably have your answer right there.
Don't show interest yet, break rapport instead.
But if she's actively showing disinterest, then she's not interested, either you haven't got attraction or she's plain not into you, move on.

Simples?

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