Who cares how many dumb texts they send. I delete most of them and just reply when I have something to say or to make the next date.
A 5 to 1 ratio seems about right to me.
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| Author: | bundy [ Wed Nov 14, 2012 5:27 am ] |
| Post subject: | she texts...and texts...and texts.... |
so ive been boning this girl for like 2 weeks now....the past fridays and saturdays weve fucked and she has slept over. the other night (drunkenly) at a party i told her flat out that i wasnt looking for a relationship, but i liked hanging out with her and loved having sex with her and told her we should continue to be "fuck buddies" she was pretty pissed that i said it so explicitly, but she came over at the end of the night anyway. so i have made my intentions VERY clear, but she still insists on texting me like ALL THE FUCKING TIME, usually just to chit chat. i often take very very long to respond, sometimes well over an hour, but shes always quick to respond. basically, its pretty clear to me this girl really really likes me. anyway suggestions for possibly getting her to chill the fuck out? i mean its great having a fuck buddy who is down for anything at any time, but its a bit annoying. |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Wed Nov 14, 2012 5:33 am ] |
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just tell her you are busy and cannot talk at the moment. Not rocket science..I do it all the time. |
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| Author: | GKS [ Wed Nov 14, 2012 5:36 am ] |
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Perhaps she needs that emotional assurance so she doesn't feel a slut sleeping with you even though you said you just wanted sex. Just let her keep her excuse but take longer to reply, she will eventually get the hint. |
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| Author: | Jesus_PT [ Wed Nov 14, 2012 5:46 am ] |
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be careful, these are the ones that might become cra-zy we all know how this ends so... she will feel used sooner or later unless... 1- go smooth with her so she can comply beeing a fuck buddy 2- restrain her from being too needy and especially, be careful as they always want to become exclusive or try to fancy a relationship |
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| Author: | detox75 [ Wed Nov 14, 2012 7:08 am ] |
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Obviously she wants more then your willing to provide. Thats her problem not yours, as you've been more then resonantly honest with her about this. Just be consistent in not responding to her very much and keeping it strictly booty call level, thats no sleep overs, no meals, no dates. She will get the hint and chill out or bail, either way problem solved. And in my experience you dont need to worry about her "Getting crazy". Girls tend to get crazy when you promise them the moon, run emotional vampire game on them, then blow them off. Good PUAS dont run that kind of game and dont often have to deal with the crazies (not too often). Finally as Assertive said, this shit is common for guys with game, get used to it, dont take the emotional onus of responsibility on yourself and have it affect you adversely, its part of the game. |
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| Author: | JamesWatson31 [ Wed Nov 14, 2012 6:01 pm ] |
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Who cares how many dumb texts they send. I delete most of them and just reply when I have something to say or to make the next date. A 5 to 1 ratio seems about right to me.
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