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Author:  Harpwn [ Tue Nov 13, 2012 12:15 am ]
Post subject:  UK University daygame
Quick few questions regarding day-game in a very specific environment.

I am interested in trying out some day-game as I cant afford to go out as much as I would like.

Firstly some facts:
  • 1. Im a third year, not in halls.
    2. I mostly walk around alone during the day, my friends are boring.
    3. There is no girls on my course (Computer science, im not kidding).
    4. I cant afford money on activities.
Locations:
  • 1. Campus - In winter people dont stand around much, the ones that do stand in groups. Not much like an american campus, not ideal for meeting people.
    2. Union - Day-time drinking and social area on campus, sometimes we go there to play pool. It is club sized and as such people are all very spread out mostly in large mixed groups.
    3. City Centre - Alot of teenagers around, unfortunately alot of them are hella hot.. its distracting and gives me anxiety because they often stare.
Ok so with those things in mind here are my questions:
  • I get much more nervous when it comes to daytime game, how can I combat this?

    Where is a good starting point and why?

    How can I go about this, whats the best way to go in during the day?

    Plus any extra advice or experience anyone can give :).
Author:  AmazingArt [ Tue Nov 13, 2012 3:28 am ]
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Indeed Harp daygame is much tougher but once you master it other things will be piece of cake. The best point to start is to know and be sure what your doing. Just saying I'll go out and see what happens isn't good enough. So, create a goal for yourself every week and implement it. By having goals you wont feel confused and will know where you are standing. The way I started off is by approaching girls for the sake of socializing. Meaning I said to myself that I wont get phone numbers but rather just have a conversation. This takes a lot of pressure off you because you don't feel like you need to do something. Just don't be serious and before you start understand that your not starting a nuclear war. All your doing is talking to a girl. The best advice I can give is as follows, it helped me a lot. Whenever I used to think am I doing this right or what should I do now I used to ask myself how would James Bond handle this situation and do according to that.
Author:  Harpwn [ Tue Nov 13, 2012 5:12 pm ]
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I still have alot of trouble getting words out when I happen to be near people during the day, something about being alone in town just makes me feel like I reek of creepy . As well as the fact that everyone is usually grouped and occupied with something else.

Today I was waiting for food in a local sandwich place and 2 girls walked in behind me, it was pretty crowded and they were both chatting but from my perspective it just seemed like making a move would have come of as weird. Just outside a quite attractive girl sat at a table round the corner from me, gave me a look just before but I still took to long to compute anything decent before my anxiety prevented me from approaching.

I guess looking at that situation it appears to be an anxiety and experience issue which is holding me back, is there any definitive guides or videos that you know of to help with daygame? I need to get my mind working faster and sharper so I can conquer this.
Author:  AmazingArt [ Wed Nov 14, 2012 1:14 am ]
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It's hard to explain everything from one post but here are some good youtube videos that will help. This channel called "simple pickup". Watch their videos and they explain everything as simply as possible.
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