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| Author: | Ponch41 [ Sun Nov 11, 2012 7:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | I've Lost My Game. |
So I read the game summer of 2011 and the first half of the school year, I had never talked to so many girls in my life. Now I'm talking about simply just talk to, many times flirt with, & started hanging out with good looking girls. It's been like a year since than, & I seriously feel I've lost all my game. I'll talk to the girls in class & stuff, but I just don't get the same reactions I used to. I'll make them laugh and what not, but that flirty side just isn't there. I'm guessing the whole "If you don't use it, you lose it" aspect works with me. I'm thinking about going back and reading the game again to possibly get me back in that state of mind. I just need some help my success rate with girls is terrible to what it was last year, and since than I am a lot better looking(well dressed, ripped now) too, but my confidence isn't there like it was. Any help or tips are appreciated. |
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| Author: | Spacehead [ Sun Nov 11, 2012 8:07 pm ] |
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What value you think you have to give to these girls? If you are ripped, you need to tell yourself, that girls really really want to fuck you and you need to bring that up somehow. You should start flirting again ASAP. You need to keep up a positive flow. Ignore the things that cause you feel less confident and concentrate on things that cause you to feel more confident. And you need to have a goal in mind when you interact. Maybe you have fallen into some kind of comfort zone. You need to find your limits and go through them, out of the comfort zone. Do things that make you feel a little bit intimidated, things that are new to you. |
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| Author: | Ponch41 [ Sun Nov 11, 2012 8:11 pm ] |
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Quote: What value you think you have to give to these girls?
I think i've just forgotten what to say to girls. The game just isn't in my head anymore. I can't think of stuff to talk about anymore man.
If you are ripped, you need to tell yourself, that girls really really want to fuck you and you need to bring that up somehow. You should start flirting again ASAP. You need to keep up a positive flow. Ignore the things that cause you feel less confident and concentrate on things that cause you to feel more confident. And you need to have a goal in mind when you interact. Maybe you have fallen into some kind of comfort zone. You need to find your limits and go through them, out of the comfort zone. Do things that make you feel a little bit intimidated, things that are new to you. |
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| Author: | Spacehead [ Mon Nov 12, 2012 12:54 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: What value you think you have to give to these girls?
I think i've just forgotten what to say to girls. The game just isn't in my head anymore. I can't think of stuff to talk about anymore man.If you are ripped, you need to tell yourself, that girls really really want to fuck you and you need to bring that up somehow. You should start flirting again ASAP. You need to keep up a positive flow. Ignore the things that cause you feel less confident and concentrate on things that cause you to feel more confident. And you need to have a goal in mind when you interact. Maybe you have fallen into some kind of comfort zone. You need to find your limits and go through them, out of the comfort zone. Do things that make you feel a little bit intimidated, things that are new to you. Have you talked to girls with sexual intention for awhile? If not, you should start doing it. I have had this same problem (of overthinking), but when you approach and start talking, you will come up with stuff to say on the fly, and you are spontaneous. Being spontaneous is much smoother than using learned routines and is more natural. If you fail and there is awkwardness, you will practice with another girl. I consider HB5-7 as a practice material. I just talk to them to get better as a conversationalist. There is no pressure as they are not that hot you would fall in love with them. Of course when this practice is done in a friendly manner, everybody benefits. We as PUAs get practice and women get good company. |
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