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| Author: | Hustle_23 [ Sat Nov 10, 2012 7:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | #close - set up day 2 - ran into girl at bar |
This is a kind of random question, but basically I #closed a girl last weekend, set up a hangout for the Tuesday after a weekend and then ran into that girl at the bar on the Friday. How should you approach this situation? Go right back to gaming her? Ignore her and game other chicks? Basically, since I knew her friends I talked to the whole group and played a game of pool with the girl but for the most part we didn't talk much. I talked to other girls and she ended up leaving without seeing me again that night. I could care less if she was pissed that I didn't spend my entire night with her and thus won't meet up for day 2, as this is simply a learning experience for me. Did I play this situation right? My logic was don't look desperate and hang around her all night, but I might have gone too far and she could have interpreted this as me ignoring her. What do you guys think is the best approach for when you see a girl that you have a day 2 scheduled BEFORE that actual day? |
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| Author: | 0uch [ Sun Nov 11, 2012 9:57 pm ] |
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WTF would you ignore her? Easy situation. Hang out with her, try to set something up for later that night. |
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| Author: | Snarg [ Sun Nov 11, 2012 10:39 pm ] |
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Were you there with other friends, or did you go alone? If you went with people, your first commitment is to hang out with them for obvious reasons. You could have stayed and talked to her for a bit though. Tease her a little and things like that to remind her what a prize you are, then get back to your crew. I think you had the right idea, but maybe overplayed it a little bit like you said. It's fine though; as long as the date you set up with her goes through, there's no harm done as long as you learned something. |
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| Author: | Hustle_23 [ Wed Nov 14, 2012 5:51 pm ] |
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@Snarg - I was with other friends so they were my first commitment. I did talk to her a bit, but I was just trying to be conscious of not being overbearing or needy. Evidently my strategy worked as I had a solid day-2 last night and we're both attending a house party next Saturday where I plan on escalating big time. Huge IOI's on day 2 date and a long makeout rather than quick kiss to end it. And like you said, the most important part is that I learned something, couldn't agree more. |
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