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| Author: | B. F. Skinner [ Thu Nov 08, 2012 5:26 pm ] |
| Post subject: | The Best Method? |
So I wanted to get everyone's opinion on something (Pun intended) My question for you all is what is the best method and why? Here's the format we should use for the response. 1. Title of Method. Ex. RSD, Mystery, etc 2. Why you feel it is the best 3. Pros/Cons 4. Who it's best suited for. I think by posing this question many newbies (like myself) can get a better grasp of all the different kinds of methods and find the one that best suits them for either beginning or staying with. |
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| Author: | KimPa [ Thu Nov 08, 2012 5:38 pm ] |
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There are so many methods out there that I don't know which one is which.. Anyway, what works for me may not work for you and what works for you might not work for me.. I vote for natural game without no routines, negs or any of that scripted shit.. Learn to be confident..YES, no one is born confident and it's not genetics.. You build that in yourself! Be humorous. If you are not funny, don't bother doing that.. lol Act differently than anyone else.. Basically be creative! Be an alpha leader, and not a follower.. If you believe in something, stick with it and don't follow the crowd. And finally, if you are dumb like a rock, go to classes, read some books and get educated. There you go. That's all you need to be a successful pick up artist |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Thu Nov 08, 2012 5:50 pm ] |
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1. Natural 2. It works best for me 3. It's the easiest and most efficient system 4. Me |
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| Author: | TheAnimal [ Thu Nov 08, 2012 9:03 pm ] |
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i dont think you should use any methods, just improve your OWN game... your not an actor and dont try to be, therefor when you have improved your own game, it will be much easier for you because it comes naturally, instead of you trying to remember openings, approaches and such things... methods where only used by me at the beggining when i tried to get som confidence and learned that its not that hard to talk to girls and if you have to use anything i would recommend "cocky funny" bu david d'angelo which i think is the best one to transfer over to your own game style hope it sorts things out a bit for you |
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| Author: | B. F. Skinner [ Thu Nov 08, 2012 10:06 pm ] |
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Awesome responses everyone! Yeah I'm pretty confident, I don't get approach anxiety anymore. (I credit my outlook on approaching now) I've heard that natural game is picking on in the PUA world. I feel like I'm a great conversationalist. Do you guys recommend using routines? Or do you find yourself talking and leading conversations into certain subjects? |
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| Author: | Jimzy [ Fri Nov 09, 2012 6:10 pm ] |
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Ditto puaninja. Natural Game is simple molding traits that all women want around your own individual personality. Its simple, doesn't involve any canned crap, and is genuinely fun. By genuine I mean you are being genuine because everything you say and do is spontaneous and based on the feelings/situation going on. Richard La Ruina's stuff is all great, he puts it across simply, no bs, and clearly it works. |
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| Author: | maxsmart [ Fri Nov 09, 2012 7:33 pm ] |
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Great replies. I'd like to add that, though it may sound trite, the best method is YOUR method. I know early on, that seems absurd because you feel you have no method (that's why you're here, right?), but it is ultimately what ought to and will happen. In high school, whenever we would have a test in our geometry class, someone would inevitably ask our teacher, "What do we need to know for the test?" And without fail, his reply was always sternly the following: "Everything you have learned in your entire life to this point." Obviously, this was his dryly humorous way of indicating a deep truth. For the sake of a geometry class, we needed to know all sorts of techniques to solve problems and draft proofs. Those techniques occasionally were pulled from parts of mathematics we hadn't even thought about for a few years. Also, we needed to know implicitly how to write concisely, spell words, use logic, add and subtract, know what pencil and eraser were best, know what a triangle looks like, etc. Obviously, these are all subtleties that are almost unconscious, and it would have been simple for him to just say that the test was on "exterior angles of quadrilaterals," but that would have been missing the point. Every technique we study, every person we speak to, every TV show we watch in some way imparts some knowledge to us. In re PUA, there are certain methods that are more strongly in our favor than others, but ultimately, we ought to study many methods. as they will ultimately become incorporated and assimilated into our own personal method. For example, I never set out to adopt any Ross Jeffries stuff really, but I did study it a bit; and even now, all these years later, I occasionally find that it is the right tool for the job and I find myself using it almost automatically in those cases. The same with with MM: I was not a -huge- fan (though I appreciate it), but I studied it and ultimately it helps me. Also, having read the Canterbury Tales and watched a documentary on how to make a spatula both also, in some ancillary barely perceptible way, helps me. Just like I'm guessing that even though my geometry teacher didn't intend for his statement to be so profound--but rather just wryly funny--,I have used that small tidbit from him to drastically improve my life. It just seems to resonate with me (and it may not for you; this is why we all have our own method). This is also why I feel it is a huge help to talk to people and get their opinions (especially here); even if those opinions may not be directly helpful, they will ultimately aid you in making a decision or in some other unforeseen way down the road. A small aside: this concept can also be detrimental; be careful what you expose yourself to as it can all rub off on you a bit--e.g., maybe watching The Real Housewives 48 hour marathon straight through is not going to be the best thing for you now or ever (or maybe it is; what do I know....). Sorry for going a bit beyond the OP's question, but I just want to stress how important it is to try to educate (not necessarily formally) oneself in all areas of life. Max |
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| Author: | stevejabba [ Wed Dec 05, 2012 12:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: The Best Method? |
The best method is to increase your value as a man, whilst implementing best of breed tactics / techniques, getting game calibration, and working on your mindset and belief systems over the months and years. To do that you'll need to be steered in the right direction with someone who knows what he is talking about. |
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