So the other day I was chilling in the library and saw this one girl that has been going to school with me for years sitting on a couch waiting for a computer. Instantly I follow the 3 sec rule. I give her a hug and sit next to her, but slightly lean away from her as I'm talking to her. I ask her how she's doing, she says "I'm dying..." -I quickly/smoothly put the back of my hand on her forehead and then on her cheek to "check her temperature." She just says calmly -"I'm not sick". So we keep talking I make her laugh a little bit and she offers me some of her M&Ms. By the way, I'm dressed super stylish/chill. Anyways, Throughout the conversation I notice bodily ques that she's a little nervous, but for me, I'm feeling cool and comfortable the whole time. After about 6 min she says it's her turn to use the computer and kind of awkwardly gets up and says bye -but again, the whole time she's doing this I'm just sitting chilled out on the coach and respond to her 'bye' with a gesture of my hand.
I just want to know, do you think I escalated to the face way too quickly and that may be the reason why she seemed nervous?
I know she's said way back in the day that I'm good looking. I also rmr that the last time I approached her I was the one who was nervous plus I was choking up. Perhaps she was thrown off by my stronger approach?
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) guy approached her. You should have grabbed her number when she got up because I think you had it in the bag.