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| Author: | MrCharizma [ Mon Nov 05, 2012 3:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | When Should You Text or Call Her After You Get Her Number? |
Hey guys, Mr. Charizma here, Day 3 of going out and approaching and I got my 1st number-close! It was an amazing feeling. In order to game properly, how long should you wait before calling or texting after the number-close? |
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| Author: | Magius [ Mon Nov 05, 2012 3:32 pm ] |
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Depends where you got the telephone number, was it daytime you can text easy in the same day. Just something relevant. Nightclub often wait 1 or 2 days. Do not wait to long with either because if you do not have a really strong connection with the target, the feeling she got while being with you maybe disappear. But do not seem to eager. Come with a cool line half a joke, how was last night. Hangover? blablabla. Things which is relevant to the topic. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Mon Nov 05, 2012 3:41 pm ] |
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I think we did the math on it and it's like 4.3 days or something that you should wait. |
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| Author: | MrCharizma [ Mon Nov 05, 2012 4:32 pm ] |
| Post subject: | @Magius |
Thanks for your help man.. That makes sense, should the call/text time be around the same time as the inital interaction? For example if you met her at a nightclub text her at night. Or does that not matter? |
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| Author: | MrCharizma [ Mon Nov 05, 2012 4:35 pm ] |
| Post subject: | @puaninja |
Sarcasim? If not please explain... |
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| Author: | VietnameseProdigy [ Mon Nov 05, 2012 10:24 pm ] |
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if you get a number off day game, text immediately so she saves your number if it's night game, text all the numbers you closed that same night, and screen for which girl is DTF. |
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| Author: | MrCharizma [ Tue Nov 06, 2012 7:04 am ] |
| Post subject: | @VietnameseProdigy |
Theres alot of different views here, i take it the best way is to is to try everything and see what works best for the individual? |
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| Author: | Chris_G [ Tue Nov 06, 2012 11:50 am ] |
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If she gave you her number, she wants to hear from you the next day  If you wait too long, then she will think ... "why didnt he text me the next day" and in turn play the waiting game with you too.. cut through all the bullshit, text her the next day and setup that date!
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| Author: | Snarg [ Tue Nov 06, 2012 1:06 pm ] |
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Waiting is a bad idea in most cases. Text the next day when it's most convenient for you. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Tue Nov 06, 2012 1:29 pm ] |
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Actually, I change my answer. Text immediately. I just did this recently. Got her number and then texted "Hi" while she was standing right in front of me. She was like "Hi", indicating she read my text. Now I know that she has my number in her phone, and she'll probably leave that text sitting there, and when she looks through her recent texts tmrw and the day after, she'll see mine and be reminded of me. |
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| Author: | Hazard84 [ Tue Nov 06, 2012 1:34 pm ] |
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Kinda depends on the girl. For some girls a text next morning is needy (partygirls) for some its the way to her bed (good girls). I once got the line of "I was surprised you really called me back." (in a positive way, after a one-nighter. Still befriended with her, long time FB, engaged with another guy now. You lose some you get some) |
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| Author: | MrCharizma [ Tue Nov 06, 2012 2:49 pm ] |
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The next works well, because as some of you guys said eariler waiting on it will most likely lead her to forget about. Especially if your dealing with HB8 and up because they're usually constantly getting male attention. Where does that whole wait 3 days rule even come from then if its a crock of shit? |
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| Author: | Snarg [ Tue Nov 06, 2012 2:59 pm ] |
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Quote: The next works well, because as some of you guys said eariler waiting on it will most likely lead her to forget about. Especially if your dealing with HB8 and up because they're usually constantly getting male attention.
There are a lot of horrible rules like that which is why most guys are in the mess they're in right now. Ever hear someone talking about how there's "the one" out there for them? As if there's only one single girl out there who is made for them. It's all bullshit. There's hundreds of girls out there that will just be as compatible with you as the next.Where does that whole wait 3 days rule even come from then if its a crock of shit? Waiting three days shows a distinct lack of interest in the girl, and will cause them to forget about you anyway, no matter how good looking or charming you are. Honestly, even waiting a full 24 hours might be too much in some cases. Grab the bull by the balls and do work. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Tue Nov 06, 2012 5:38 pm ] |
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It's a choice between the lesser of two evils. Contacting them too quickly shows neediness. But waiting too long allows them to forget about you and decreases your chances of getting them to go out with you. However, coming across as needy or demanding can also diminish your chances of success. The waiting 4.3 days thing is basically being willing to lose the girl to get the girl. It's also a way to maintain a desireable frame and high DHV because you will not be perceived as needy. The only drawback is that the girl will probably not have much of a recollection of you and you'll really need to re-game her via text or over the phone, which can be difficult. I'd wait the 4.3 days with girls I don't really care that much about, because even if they blow you out or ignore you, at least you aren't coming off as desparate. But if if you really like the girl and she's hot, you simply can't risk her forgetting about you because you will not get a second chance. She'll have already met new guys and ignored all their calls too by the time you call her back, so you must strike while the iron is hot. |
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| Author: | rastablasta [ Tue Nov 06, 2012 5:58 pm ] |
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hey read the book by doc love called the System. it has some crap btu it works wonder abotu phone and numbers. basicly you need to w8 5-9 days to call her. cause every other guy calls within 3 days. just read his book and see the details , it worked for me. i never call within first 3 days , i jsut chill and w8. and they always remeber who it was 
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