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| Author: | Zastro [ Mon Nov 05, 2012 2:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | approaches.. go after HB's you don't really want? |
I'm very new to PUA, recently divorced and 41. The bottom line is I am not doing any approaches because I haven't seen any HB's that I am really interested in. Getting HB's has not been a problem. I have two HB6's now, both in love with me. Both with children and other baggage. My problem is I want younger than me, no children would be a huge bonus and I want HB8+. I'm just not seeing any where I go. Actually I do, but they are 20 and I have a limit around 25. Should I just drop this arbritrary age limit and approach obviously under 25's? In a way I have opened to plenty of under 25's in the form of waitresses and store clerks, but I haven't attempted a close. Also, do I use my time and energy to approach lesser HB's? My logic has been to only go after what I really want. Also, being rejected by HB's I don't even want would not help the AA. And then if I did successfully approach lesser HB's, do I just friend zone them and farm them for their friends? Just tell them I'm looking for friends and not dates or something? Thanks for any input! |
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| Author: | Magius [ Mon Nov 05, 2012 3:48 pm ] |
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Firstly you still can do approaches just for fun, getting some numbers here and there and just challenge yourself. The thing is that there is some fun in this game. What i would say is that you are not in the best places it seems, you should try going to new areas than you are in now. Find places where girls from 25+ goes to, maybe bars, coffee shops, malls etc. Things like that, it seems like you have to change the places overall. Well it depends my personal view would be keeping it on 25 years, maybe as young as 23. But under that no. It is good being selective of course, thats a good thing going for the things you want. Especially if you can get it. Well why are you afraid of being rejected? The thing is that no one in the world could have 100% success with women, and i mean no one. The best of the best have a reusable high number of course. But overall sometimes you are going to get "rejected". There is also a possibility of using the less attractive girls to make them introduce you to their single friends. Making good contacts, not all interactions has to be about sex. Sometimes it is good making contacts. You do not really need to tell them about what you want or not, only if you are going for them. If you want to be single say it to the girl and you could possibly have a ff. While on the other hand tell the girls you date you are interested in a relationship. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Mon Nov 05, 2012 4:37 pm ] |
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I don't have the confidence to approach 9s and 10s usually, but I still do it occassionally. 9s and 10s are my goal since most girls I've fucked have been 8s or less. That's what you want too, I can tell. You want the "hot girlfriend" that you see other guys having. Who wouldn't want that, regardless of your age? The only advice I can give is abundance. Just keep opening sets. Doesn't matter their hb rating. Maybe they have a single older friend who is a 10 that they'll introduce you too later on down the road. You have no idea where that dream girl will come from, so you must keep all your avenues and options open and continue treating it as a numbers game. And who know, maybe you'll meet an 8 which is a lot better than a 6, and she'll not have kids and turn out to be a really great match for you. Maybe she's not a 10, but an hb8 is nothing to shake a stick at. |
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| Author: | Zastro [ Tue Nov 13, 2012 2:59 pm ] |
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Good points.. and I'd be perfectly happy with an HB8 if she was without kids and young enough. I just don't want to end up in the same boat I was in before and that's why I've generally avoided HB6 and less. The problem is I have limited time and don't want my free time eaten up with texts and calls from HB's I don't want. Not a problem in a number close - just throw it away. But a reverse number close I'd either have to lie or just avoid their calls/texts. Then again they might have friends... Uhggg.. Much too busy these days to put the time in I need to. |
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