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Author:  bkvlad21 [ Mon Nov 05, 2012 12:54 am ]
Post subject:  Should I lie about my age? Serious age difference...
I'm a pretty straight forward guy, the biggest insecurity I have is my age. I'm 17 but I allways go for the early 20's HB. Whenever the question about my age comes up, I make a joke or say something silly (oh I'm 12 :D). I look much older so people guess im 19-22. Yesterday I was laying on a bed, at her house, watching a movie. Kino goes well but as soon as I try to get more sexual, she stops me and says "No I can't, what if you're like 17, that's so disgusting, why wouldnt you tell me your real age?"(BULLSEYE! Imagine how hard it was to keep my poker face on, :lol: ). I would lie without even thinking, but it's the first girl in a while that I'm really interested in, been thinking about a relationship. Relationships built on lies never last though.
She's 21.[/b]
Author:  Snarg [ Mon Nov 05, 2012 1:51 am ]
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It's pretty cut and dry.

Lying about your age to enter a relationship is absolutely horrible and cannot work. What happens when she wants to go out for drinks? You're incredibly screwed. You won't be able to keep up the lies for long.

If you want to get laid once or something, lie.
Author:  Pickwick [ Mon Nov 05, 2012 3:21 am ]
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I was in the same exact position as you,.dating girls in their early 20s when I wad 17 and 18. Lied once about my age and she found out through facebook. Instantly broke it off. Never did it again and eveything always went well with older girls. Just act mature. If it still bothers her, on to the next one.
Author:  smashthecrash [ Mon Nov 05, 2012 3:26 am ]
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Snarg nailed it. If you're into something more than a ONS, then just be honest. Act like it's no big deal, and it won't be.

I'm 28, and regularly "date" college girls. No point in lying, they'll find out sooner or later.
Author:  Mr. Assertive [ Mon Nov 05, 2012 4:55 am ]
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Honesty is always best in any situation. Most of my dating life has been with older women(I don't know why and I don't ask why) and I never had a problem with admitting my real age. They were usually surprised because I had less insecure kinks as the other men in my age group. Just get over it. If you don't make it a big deal then they won't make it a big deal. And as you said, lying at the beginning of a relationship does not set a solid foundation for the future.
Author:  bkvlad21 [ Mon Nov 05, 2012 6:34 am ]
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Thanks for the response guys. Club wise, dont worry, I can get in (; Today it was much more smooth. Chilled in her car, listened to music, made out. But admitting my age is a personal issue that I will have to work on. I had a really bad experience with one of my first succesfull pickups, everything was goin just amaizing untill I confessed my age. That shallow @#$@! just cut me off completely, started to ignore my existance.
Anyway, I think I will keep on doing what I'm already doing, just avoid the topic in a funy/cute way. She seems to care less about that now.
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