Hello guys, teenager here and i have quite the situation for you:
just a week ago i met this girl at a party (yeah, cheesy backstory, i know). one thing led to another and we kissed 1-2 times. The next day she liked a comment i made on the party (on fb) and poked me. When i poked back, guess what - she poked again. The hunt begins i guess. So i add her as a friend and she messages me shortly after. We have some nice conversation about the party and what we both had to do afterwards. she contributed pretty well so i decided mi might have a good lead.
Since then for the next 3-4 days it was always her who messaged me first. I managed to keep a good frame and not get too cocky (i have a reallu f***ing bad experience with that) and she gave me some IOIs like saying she's been thinking about me after i bantered about some obscure fb emotes she sent me.
I grabbed on to this and took her out for coffee 2 days ago, which went pretty well imo, she didnt try flaking (although she probably gave me a not so subtle shit test, asking me about the reasons) and i sisnt stagger or anything, we even exchanged numbers in the end. About the coffee itself (i had a chocolate anyway) I didnt initiate any kino (i mentioned she has a bf according to fb - it's with a name, not just "in a relationship") - no hand caressing, no kissing, just eye contact with triangular gazing and the hello and goodbye hugs. She contributed a lot once again, it was at least 50/50 and she didnt even hint about me paying the entire bill, we just split it like normal people.
Yesterday, while she was asking me about what i was doing she sent me a kiss emote and apologized for it saying it was a mistake after i replied i was playing a game, then asked me what game it was, at which moment i just told her i was going to bed and ended. I even gave her a little bit of validation (which she probably deserved anyway) on a topic of picking out presents. The next day, just after the convo on fb died out, she mentioned shad a good time on thursday but that it passed too quickly, mentioning that i am an interesting person (please tell me this does not equal a f***ing friend) to which i replied with us being able to see each other again soon. Then she said something along the lines of "alrighty
" and i left it at that, no talking today.So, i think i managed it pretty well up until now but i want to hear advice about proceeding and also if i made any stupid mistakes from what you could read. My main worry is her dropping the BF/friend bomb after all this initiation and IOIs.
(Also feel free to move the toic to day 2's or relationships if it fits there better, idk.)
