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Author:  MagicCaveman [ Sat Nov 03, 2012 2:12 am ]
Post subject:  Girls not texting back.
I don't know, just after being out of the game for a few months from getting laid regularly, lately.. sucks... I'm making out with average girls and getting numbers, however none of the girls are texting back. If they do, it is brief or a couple.

Anyone got any tips or good recent routines?

Also, i was just wondering, when I get a number, I usually try anchoring something from the previous night, sometimes work etc.. sometimes doesnt.

Does anyone have an ideal kinda time when to text?
Author:  0uch [ Sat Nov 03, 2012 3:41 am ]
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text around the time bar closes with something like "get home safely" -Your name

Also, you might want to reconsider your game. When you go out, try to go for pulls instead of number closing.

But as far as your not getting any text back is probably your not building any connection. Commonalities help here a lot.
Author:  pumpington [ Sat Nov 03, 2012 11:21 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Girls not texting back.
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I don't know, just after being out of the game for a few months from getting laid regularly, lately.. sucks... I'm making out with average girls and getting numbers, however none of the girls are texting back. If they do, it is brief or a couple.

Anyone got any tips or good recent routines?
the get more numbers on a regular basis and get to know the girls better so they don't see you as a stranger routine

you could also try the, more honest about what I am looking for routine
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Also, i was just wondering, when I get a number, I usually try anchoring something from the previous night, sometimes work etc.. sometimes doesnt.

Does anyone have an ideal kinda time when to text?
just get to know them better man, you should leave feeling like you know that girl as a person, when you can look back and say, erica from last night was awesome, she wants to be a pilot and likes the ramones and she is into skydiving and blah blah blah I like her alot of she seems really cool etc. etc.

you will probably have her feeling like she ''knows'' you too by default, then the idea of meeting with you again is more appealing then you being, ''that guy'' that I made out with at the club last night for her

and when to text?, depends on how long you talked with her, if it was a short little, your hot blah blah blah 2minutes later, lets hang out, do you text? lets text etc.

then you should be getting on that right away, the sooner the better

if it was a 3 hour long talk with kissing and life stories and you feel like you've known each other for 10 years already, then you don't have to call right away, but sooner rather then later would never really hurt, unless she doesn't like you, or thinks you are desperate or something and are only calling cause you have nothing better to do rather then just because you are genuinely interested in her
Author:  MagicCaveman [ Wed Nov 07, 2012 4:35 pm ]
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thanks pumpington, your right. Strange as one of the girls text me back 3 days later, so i made a bit of a joke like... holy shit! your text took 3 days to come through, then she laughed and we swapped a few texts, then none for another 3 days. She said she rarly uses her phone :/

Probably shouldn't give her a text until she texts me back, surprise phone call? lol just to put her on the spot? What ya think?
Author:  Rebooting [ Wed Nov 07, 2012 5:07 pm ]
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The reason you are getting flakes, as Pumpington very well said, is that you are just "that random dude I made out with while drunk, who I don´t really know". You need to build more comfort before leaving eastablishing a timebridge, or it´s likely it´s not going to end well. Given the fact that you didn´t manage to build enough comfort: doing it over texts from there on is gonna be HARD. I suggest that you use phonegame at the very least. Coming back to subjects you talked about that night sure is a good way to help her recall you, other than that, phonegame is just practice, practice practice... Do it often enough and soon you will find you find it quite easy to keep building comfort over the phone and to set dates from there on. Do what I do. As soon as you get a phone number, call it. Not because you desire any certain outcome, but to train your phonegame.

Also, don´t let too much time pass. I wouldn´t wait for any longer than three days to contact a girl I have only met once in a bar/club during the weekend. She might think about you for a bunch of days, but as soon as her routine kicks back in, you will be forgotten and no longer matter.
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