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| Author: | devi4nt [ Fri Nov 02, 2012 4:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Kissed on the first date, now she ignores me? |
Just after some quick advice really. I like asking here becuase everyone is so blunt and straight to the point which is great We met online and chatted for a bit then the conversation died. I was at a gig a few days later and noticed this girl staring at me (this is pu i should have approached a girl staring at me anyway haha). Thought nothing of it. Went home back online realised who it was. sent her a mesage asking if it was her and she replied blah blah blah. So she's seen me in real life and agreed to a date with me. So there has to be some interest there. So I went on a date last night with her. It was the first time we met properly. I like to think it went good. Conversation was great. Made her laugh out loud a lot and plenty of playful teasing and punching each other in the arm etc. I decided to leave the first bar we were at and go to another and when we left it was raining. I had an umbrella so let her come under and she initiated linking arms to walk there. All good so far. Now we've both drunk the same but I think maybe she was nervous and had some drinks before meeting me as it was at the second bar I noticed she was getting a little drunk. Nothing extreme but I just noticed the conversation dipping a little. So I decided to tell a few more jokes and then leave on somewhat of a high to get my train home (I live 40mins away from hers). As we're leaving she recognises the bouncer and has a brief chat with him. Then tells me "that was so awkward wasn't it?" and tells me she used to date him for quite some time to which I totally ignore and reply with "I hope I haven't left my umbrella in there" to change the subject and show her I'm not there to talk about ex's and other guys and I couldn't care less. I think I handled it well by not reacting or feeding her conversation on the topic. She has to go in the other direction as she's meeting some friends to stay out (would have walked her there but I had a train to catch) so we hug and I get a kiss (2 to 3 minutes/tounge). I pulled away frist and whispered in her ear "tonight was fun Sophie" Took her hands and said "we'll do this again sometime I'll be in touch". I think she wanted to kiss me again but I left leaving her wanting more. Not sure if that was a good thing or not. I've not heard from her since and just wondering does anyone have any advice on what I can text her (Yes it has to be text, I know I should call but my phone only texts at the moment so it has to be that, we're only 21 anyway so I feel texts are more our thing anyway and calls are for late 20's+ or maybe I'm wrong). I want to set up a date 2. I was thinking something like "how lucky are you feeling, pick an envelope A, B or C" Whatever she picks I'm gonna take her to the zoo but doing this adds some mystery to it. Is that too cheesy? Should I come straight out with that and ask for a second date or send a few 'fluff' texts first? Do you think she only kissed me becuase she was a little drunk? Or do you think she was genuinnely interested? She tweeted some guy soon after I'd gone telling him to come to the club she's at but he was already out somewhere esle so couldn't . she tweeted him again this morning saying she needs coffee and is he coming round hers to which he replied he'll be round shortly (replying to the girl in question and her other female flat mate. Maybe just friends but I've seen him on the dating site too so maybe she knows him off there. (I always go in to dates assuming their dating multiple guys anyway so it's easier to deal with if I discover they are). Thanks for any input however blunt it may be. I'm well aware this girl may be an attention whore but there was some attraction there so I'm looking to see how this goes. Just after some advice on what to say. |
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| Author: | drugtest [ Fri Nov 02, 2012 4:56 pm ] |
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i believe that people are more honest when drunk so its good she kissed you now about calling VS texting, since you are only 21 you can text but only to set another date do not chat with her for too long because you will end up friendzoning yourself. P.S: im not experienced with girls or anything i was just thinking about the mistakes i have done with my "just friend girl" or what ever she wants 
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| Author: | devi4nt [ Sat Nov 03, 2012 5:26 pm ] |
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Thanks man. Oh I've made the mistake of texting too much before too haha. Never good. I sent a text to her last night and got no reply. I may contact her again after the weekend the middle of next week but it looks like I'm going to have to next it. I just don't get it though. Why touch my arm, hands, face, legs. Link arms when walking. Kiss me quite passionately if you have no interest in me. It makes no sense. Even if it was the alcohol she should have known if she wasn't interested and at least held back a little but she was doing even more kino than me. Anyone have any ideas to recover this or not? I know I should just delete her number but I always like to try at least once before deleting just in case there was a genuine reason for not replying. But I guess in this day and age there really is no excuse not to find a way to contact me. Thanks all. |
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| Author: | drugtest [ Sat Nov 03, 2012 5:37 pm ] |
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there is absolutely no excuse for not texting you back, she saw you text and she ignored it. i really want to help you but I'm sorry mate i don't know what to do with this one |
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