Every online or phone text mostly starts with a bland "Hey what's up". Not all the time, that's why openers were invented. But openers can't work all the time, say you want to talk to a girl you already used one on & and any other reason why you find you can't use one, their's a few.
So my question is, how do you change/transition a average conversation that everyone experiences. These are a few examples.
-Hey what's up
-Hows it been/How've you been
-What you been up to
Now usually from there they can already tell where the convo is heading, and won't respond, boring casual bullshit. "I've been good blah blah" and then you two start to share you're recent life story what you've been up to. "I've been working, doing this& that, blah blah" or whatever they say, usually never to exciting.
So now I think you get what i'm saying, how do you spice it up, & just have a better conversation in general? I know you can take topics from their day & etc. But what if those topics are flat out boring, or they gave you no material to work with?
This extends on past the opener to, but if you guys have a all-purpose type of opener feel free to share. I've only got the traditional opinion openers. Which seem to me like to much work & to try hard then it should be considering how much I have to type. And yes, I do get out, this topic just happens to be on text based game.
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