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Author:  acethespades [ Mon Oct 29, 2012 11:37 am ]
Post subject:  Didn't know if I liked a girl at first, acted too beta
I am currently a college student and I recently met this one girl in class about a month ago. We got to talking and had projects where we were assigned as a group. After the first few times, she literally went crazy for me. She tried to make it so that every time after the project, she would try everything she could to walk home with me. She would chat me up online for 1-2 times a day for several weeks in a row. At this point, I was fond of her but wasn't sure of my feelings of her. She was attractive but also came off a bit aggressive at first and so that threw me off a bit. After a few weeks, she started really taking care of herself and putting on makeup and everything. It was as if she became someone else. At this point, I totally fell for her and really got to talking with her everyday.

The big problem is, when I wasn't sure if I liked her, I didn't put up my "game" if you will and approached it differently than if I had met a stunning gorgeous girl I totally knew I liked. In short, I was f-ing beta to the max around her at first and just acting as if I was talking to a friend.

After I totally knew I liked her, I had no idea what to do as her impression of me was beta more than anything else. Also during this time, she just totally stopped contacting me online and I could tell she probably lost interest in me. She sporadically goes to class and so I haven't had a chance to talk to her there either.

Has anyone else had this happen to them where they realized feelings for a girl later on but was too beta in the beginning?

Does anyone know what I can do at this point? Would it even be feasible to try talking to her online or just try to rebuild it in person in class? Thanks
Author:  Kirin [ Mon Oct 29, 2012 11:44 am ]
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You're just infatuated by the first girl that comes your way. That's okay, I was there too.

The truth is, she liked you and you didn't do anything about it. This doesn't mean you can't save this type of relationship. You got to reconnect, say "Hey, I haven't seen you in class for a while, is everything okay?"

Whatever bull crap she says is irrelevant, then say "That's too bad, I miss your company, when you free for lunch/dinner?"

...more bullcrap talk, at the end of the conversation say "Good, then it's a date then. Can't wait to see your pretty face :)"

Kino escalate during the date. Make sure to kiss her or at least attempt to. If she lets you, then make a stronger move (ie. try to finger her or sex).
Author:  LusciousFox [ Mon Oct 29, 2012 12:45 pm ]
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So she was into you but you weren't interested at the time.

I've had both of these situations happen to me:
If you're friend zoned then cut contact for at least a month. It's like rebooting the relationship. Otherwise she's still into you so just start gaming her from qualification.
Author:  Br3ezy [ Mon Oct 29, 2012 5:20 pm ]
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Cut contact, wait a couple weeks or after a break of school or something. While you wait game other people. Then retry with her again
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