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| Author: | JXDX [ Sun Oct 28, 2012 3:16 am ] |
| Post subject: | How to grow some balls?? Any advice greatly appreciated |
My problem has always been insecurity, and it leads to inaction. For example, I can dance better than most people yet I find a reason to hold back. Whenever I go to bars or clubs with friends I usually end up not dancing because of some 'unknown fear' I can't quite put my finger on. A girl I'm attracted to gives me all the signs to talk to her yet I find a reason to not talk to her. I want to be that guy that does whatever he wants whenever he wants and doesnt have any social fears. What have you guys dont to overcome this? It's really starting to affect my life negatively. |
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| Author: | Chinopants [ Sun Oct 28, 2012 3:56 am ] |
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come to the understanding that no one cares. It does not matter what you do. They are too occupied on what they are doing. Also lifes like a video game you get unlimited lives. world keeps spinning. Spend a day acting the fool. It does not matter. |
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| Author: | GoodFella7 [ Mon Oct 29, 2012 3:06 pm ] |
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I rember a saying i heard a long time ago ''You miss 100% of the shots you don't take'' So just do it and don't think about it and you'll show confidence and if it doesn't work out so what its all part of experience and better than wondering ''What If'' |
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| Author: | Deadeyexx [ Mon Oct 29, 2012 3:42 pm ] |
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Get rid of your self image and realize you're just a guy trying to get laid. You don't have to be cool, interesting, or have social value. People will think what they think and none of that is your concern. It's liberating when you stop becoming your own worst enemy. |
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| Author: | Sheepy111 [ Mon Oct 29, 2012 7:30 pm ] |
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i used to be in a similar position, i forced myself to take action and now i'll approach 90% of the women i find attractive, once you make one approach you will feel like you can make a thousand! |
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| Author: | AFC AzA [ Tue Oct 30, 2012 5:16 am ] |
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1. never think or self talk ! (just shut ur self up) 2. slow your everything (i mean everything. your eye movement even your brain cells!) 3. realize your not cool as you think you are and someday your gonna die 4. tell yourself does it matter after 1-100 years later 5. sing limp bizkit's "keep rollin" (haha this helps me a lot.. keep rollin rollin rollin roll...keep rollin rollin roll) |
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| Author: | andyredsox [ Tue Oct 30, 2012 6:51 am ] |
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Go ahead and just be the cool guy you always want to be. Maybe you're just to afraid to step out of your comfort zone but you have to start somewhere some time. You have to do it now- approach girl/s you want. If it turned out sour, go ahead and do it again and again and again until you get better.. All naturals must have felt that way but they chose to acknowledge the fear and move on. What's the thing you love doing most with this girl? |
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| Author: | HeavyRota8tion [ Tue Oct 30, 2012 4:41 pm ] |
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