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So I went on a kind of first date yesterday with a girl I've met a couple of times and seemed to hit it off with. We went shopping to get me some clothes, had a great time, made her laugh and she was giving me IOIs all day.
We went to a party together last night, and I was building comfort all night, could've done a little better on the kino I guess. We were play fighting and stuff all night though.
So right at the end of the night when I'm about to ask her outside and make my move, she started giving off some IODs (failed compliance tests to follow me outside) and I noticed my AFC friend had his arm around her. He ended up pretty much stealing her attention from me for the rest of the night.
When I spoke to her friend she said that it was probably because my friend is really attractive, although I wouldn't say more than me, and I have way more game than him. I do know they've slept next to each other a couple of times and kissed once.
He's out of the picture today and she's started sending me mixed attraction signals again. Please help me out bros!
(Sorry for the long post)
hey mate. We went to a party together last night, and I was building comfort all night, could've done a little better on the kino I guess. We were play fighting and stuff all night though.
So right at the end of the night when I'm about to ask her outside and make my move, she started giving off some IODs (failed compliance tests to follow me outside) and I noticed my AFC friend had his arm around her. He ended up pretty much stealing her attention from me for the rest of the night.
When I spoke to her friend she said that it was probably because my friend is really attractive, although I wouldn't say more than me, and I have way more game than him. I do know they've slept next to each other a couple of times and kissed once.
He's out of the picture today and she's started sending me mixed attraction signals again. Please help me out bros!
(Sorry for the long post)
its always the same, men always have to wait to the very end until they want to make their move and 'reveal some intent of any kind'. Wrong. After the comfort, it is time to heat things up. then when was the right time? almost fromt he beginning of the party. You already made her comfortable when you guys went out shopping. You had a great time, which is very nicely done. But you should be more straightforward to what you desire.
going outside or isolating should be the last step, when it is needed to be more isolated
. until then, amp up the kino, go into sexual talk smoothly or just be direct like i am and tell her: "damn, i think you are sexy. I want you in my bed tonight. " You say you have more game then you afc friend, but it does seem that he has better game
. It seems like he was just a bit more straightforward then you are. Give concrete examples of these mixed signals please.