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| Author: | Shadowx157 [ Thu Oct 25, 2012 6:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Soul Mate? or One-itis? Someone help me out. |
Setting: USA, FL. College Freshmen Situation: Okay this is a really long story so I'm just going to bring you up to speed with the Highlights. (But if your board for a story with details your welcome to check my old posts.) It begins like this, I meet this girl (HB9) through a friend that went to another school. -High School Freshmen When I first met her I wasn't interested at first, but then I eventually went all out (which ended up causing my untimely demise in the interaction.) We dated for a month, I got to take her out as my Valentine date, and I even kissed her a few times... and bla bla bla Failure, nothing happened afterwords. -High School Senior Then, 4 years later as a high school Senior I ended up "remeeting" her . We started dating again for a month, I even asked her to her own schools homecoming and took her. But the problem at this moment in time was I was having a major Inner Game/ Kino Escalation problem, and she wasn't a virgin.. basiclly on two different pages bla bla bla I failed, it didn't work out. No through a series of incidents she ultimately ended up screwing me over. But non-intentionally I ended up getting back at her. (Honestly if you can get a girl to feel an emotion for you to the point of jealousy, it must mean something..) -Present Nearly half a year passes and I find out we go to the same college. So we meet again, coincidentally. She was sitting at a computer cubicle in a study lab with a new hair style, curiously I look over as she looks back and... bam. Conclusion: After what had happened the first time in high school I though it was just a "One-Itis". But now... Idk. I've dated, kissed, and talked to a bunch of different girls now but she just feels uncomparable. I mean just seeing her in person unexpectedly at the computer that day gave me chills, and she even made me nervous for the first few minutes of that interaction. No other girl can do that to me. Problem: Now to the problem of the matter. In the 4 year gap I didn't see her in high school she had a BF for two years. Then the second time I tried and failed, -after- I failed I heard a month later they were on and off, and now I think shes back together with this guy. Okay now this guy, I've heard story's about him and I know he's a Preppy d'bag with money, he acts as if he's alfa but he's not. Now I usually like anyone, I mean he got her fair and square, but I know this guy's a major dick. Idk what to do, even if I broke them up.. how can I compete with a two year relationship... Two times this girl and I failed to make a relationship and it was only a month, even if it did work for six months that would still be nothing to this girl. Also I'm over the whole "being scared of kino" thing but I'm still a virgin, And I'm even sure she won't like my friends, this is a HB9, she doesn't fit in with my AFC bros..... So sure this girl does sound tuff to get, but screw her BF! cause I do freakin like her, & I saw and kissed her first idk what to do about this so if someone could help me out... |
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| Author: | glowstik [ Thu Oct 25, 2012 1:08 pm ] |
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Hey dude, you need to get that confidence which you're lacking. This girl is not gonna take your virginity... it just isn't a realistic goal. Sexual attraction is the motivator for starting relationships... so YES summon up all your confidence and get busy chasing another. girl who welcomes your interest. Get your KINO on and find a girl that's gonna give you a nice hj or atleast foreplay and launch yourself off that feat and lose that v card |
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| Author: | Shadowx157 [ Fri Oct 26, 2012 4:56 pm ] |
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Bro, yeah I thought it over lolz.. fuck it, I think it's just not the right time for me and that HB9. For now I'll just up my game and lose my v card till then. Anyways thanks for the input (y) I appreciate it |
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| Author: | Crypto [ Fri Oct 26, 2012 5:09 pm ] |
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I just skimmed through your long post, I have a question before I give my thoughts on this. Have you ever had sex with her? |
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| Author: | glowstik [ Sat Oct 27, 2012 1:15 am ] |
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[quote="Crypto"]I just skimmed through your long post, I have a question before I give my thoughts on this. Have you ever had sex with her?[/quote He's never had sex!!! |
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