Okay that's good
haven't done these things for few years now. I just had dilemma about starting conversations in facebook or texting.
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| Author: | temskron [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 9:00 am ] |
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Hey guys. I would really like a good topic on neediness, searched forums, didin't find what I was looking for. Looking anwers for stuff like: where is the line between neediness and not being needy, what make's men needy, how the hell you know when you are not needy, etc etc Thanks for answers what will come. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 2:06 pm ] |
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Neediness is a desperate need for affection. The extreme need for affection that will cause a person to take someone else's spouse, sleep with the same sex, bang an HB6 or lower, or engage in masturbation. To be needy is a guy who needs attention no matter what the cost. A person that doesn’t have much confidence and will bug the living shit out of some poor girl just for a little attention. They are always suspicious, aggravating and generally become an AFC. Needy is desperate, plain and simple! This is caused by the more common affliction, Lackapussy, Lackapussy: Translation from Hawaii. Lack of sexual activity among males. A frequent and sometime fatal disease, its causes are lack of use of the male organs resulting in extreme neediness, hairy palms, and wheezing. The combinations of these two problems WILL compound each other, causing you to give up the male persona. The only known remedy is YOU! Signs of Neediness: 1. Buying gifts. 2. Romantic gestures. 3. Expressing your desire. 4. Doing “favors” without reciprocation. 5. Chasing. 6. Over calling/text messaging. (no more than 1 to 1) EVER! (Please feel free to add to the list) If you find yourself doing any of these things, YOU ARE BEING NEEDY! |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 2:16 pm ] |
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And I'll take it in the other direction. Be aloof, which is the opposite of needy. Always be unconcerned with the girl's agenda, schedule, and emotional state of being. Express this lack of concern, albeit indirectly. Don't say "I don't give a fuck about you", but ignore her and place your own needs ahead of hers. If you find that you are doing things that conflict with being aloof, then that is a symptom of neediness. |
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| Author: | temskron [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 9:13 pm ] |
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Okay that's good haven't done these things for few years now. I just had dilemma about starting conversations in facebook or texting.
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| Author: | LD [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 9:40 pm ] |
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Quote: And I'll take it in the other direction. Be aloof, which is the opposite of needy. Always be unconcerned with the girl's agenda, schedule, and emotional state of being. Express this lack of concern, albeit indirectly. Don't say "I don't give a fuck about you", but ignore her and place your own needs ahead of hers.
I like this. If you find that you are doing things that conflict with being aloof, then that is a symptom of neediness. i would like to add to this: You need to be somebody that has his own agenda, his own life, so you dont have to be concerned with hers. Make sure that you have things in your life that make you feel fulfilled. Make sure that you can make yourself happy, with or without her. cheers! |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 10:52 pm ] |
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Neediness can be overcome once the only validation you really need is from yourself. The external is no longer dictating your actions, instead, your internal self is making the world react to you. |
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| Author: | The Dice [ Thu Oct 25, 2012 8:19 am ] |
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Quote: Signs of Neediness:
As for 1, 2 and 4(partially) this is things you actually CAN do and not be needy about it. It's all a matter of situations. If you put her on a pedestall "Hey, may I buy you dinner at Resturante Le'Fancy? My treat ofcourse!" This is neediness at its worst.1. Buying gifts. 2. Romantic gestures. 3. Expressing your desire. 4. Doing “favors” without reciprocation. 5. Chasing. 6. Over calling/text messaging. (no more than 1 to 1) EVER! (Please feel free to add to the list) If you find yourself doing any of these things, YOU ARE BEING NEEDY! BUT! If you actually feel like she deserves it, let's say she did something for you or to you, and you feel like she deserves a treat for good behaviour, there is nothing wrong with a romantic gesture. Never feel like you have to do anything, because that's needy. But if you want to treat her to a dinner, and you don't do it to gain affection, I don't see anything wrong with it. You should be careful though, as it may come across as needy even if it's not. On the bright side of things, this is "The soft next" in action. This will ultimatley increase her good behaviour and make her realize that good behaviour will be rewarded. Huh, I guess women are a bit like dogs.. |
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| Author: | glowstik [ Thu Oct 25, 2012 2:46 pm ] |
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This thread is pretty brilliant I'm gonna def bookmark! With #5chasing And #6 over texting / calling What do you do if a girl you just hooked up tells you at the end of the night "Text me sometime tomorrow" ? What do you do to not go cold but not lose yourself into neediness either? |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Thu Oct 25, 2012 2:54 pm ] |
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Quote: This thread is pretty brilliant I'm gonna def bookmark!
well you can frame it as her being needy. With #5chasing And #6 over texting / calling What do you do if a girl you just hooked up tells you at the end of the night "Text me sometime tomorrow" ? What do you do to not go cold but not lose yourself into neediness either? you: "Oh, damn missing me already? Do i have to get a restraining order?" *smile* girl:blah blah blah you: "I am busy tomorrow, but I will try and text you, if not the following day(or any variation of that). Then give her a reaffirming kiss. |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Thu Oct 25, 2012 2:57 pm ] |
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Quote: Neediness is a desperate need for affection.
The extreme need for affection that will cause a person to take someone else's spouse, sleep with the same sex, bang an HB6 or lower, or engage in masturbation. To be needy is a guy who needs attention no matter what the cost. A person that doesn’t have much confidence and will bug the living shit out of some poor girl just for a little attention. They are always suspicious, aggravating and generally become an AFC. Needy is desperate, plain and simple! This is caused by the more common affliction, Lackapussy, Lackapussy: Translation from Hawaii. Lack of sexual activity among males. A frequent and sometime fatal disease, its causes are lack of use of the male organs resulting in extreme neediness, hairy palms, and wheezing. The combinations of these two problems WILL compound each other, causing you to give up the male persona. The only known remedy is YOU! Signs of Neediness: 1. Buying gifts. 2. Romantic gestures. 3. Expressing your desire. 4. Doing “favors” without reciprocation. 5. Chasing. 6. Over calling/text messaging. (no more than 1 to 1) EVER! (Please feel free to add to the list) If you find yourself doing any of these things, YOU ARE BEING NEEDY! I would disagree with the Romantic gestures. If you are overdoing them yes, it is needy, but once in awhile it is okay to show the girl you appreciate her(if you like this girl and she is a potential gf, of course). Romance novels are a staple in a woman's reading list for a reason guys... |
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