Quote: Can't do that. I usually start stuttering like an asshole. They get irritated or laugh about me. Thank god it has happened in everyday situations, if I was trying to seduce it would be even bigger humiliation.
Do you stutter because you are disabled or do you stutter because you are nervous? If the latter, then start working on that. Start opening anybody and everybody. Start very small, by just asking about direction or time. If you are waiting on the bus, start a conversation. it doesnt matter if it only lasts 2 minutes, just talk and get used to talking to strangers. In the beginning it will feel very awkward, because you will still stutter and people will give you weird looks, amused looks. They will be polite, but you will notice that they noticed your stuttering.
this will be your first obstacle. so what? Continue nonetheless. Ths is easy talk, i know that. And hard to do, i know that.
If you have a verbal disability, use it in your advantage. Turn it into a strength. You know you stutter and you cant do anything about it. You know the reaction of people to your stuttering, use it to your advantage. Women wont mind something as stuttering if you dont mind or stop caring so much. Again, i know this is easier said then done. If you are indeed disabled, then this might have been something traumatic to you, something that haunted you in your earlier social contacts. But nothing changes if you dont do anything.
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