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| Author: | fourhundred [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 6:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Alright, apparently I'm getting better at this...new problem |
Alright, the past few months I've number closed, kiss closed, and f closed quite a few girls. There's a couple I've kept around for about 4-5 weeks that are getting quite connected to me. They both don't ask about any other girls or what not but will ask about relationships...etc. What do I say to keep it how it is rather than escalate to a boyfriend/girlfriend thing. |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 6:33 pm ] |
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eh, you should have handled it early on. When she asks you have to be honest. Don't be that little bitch that leads them on for months and months. Excuse my language, but I feel that she deserves at least that. No other way around it. If she stays good for you, if she leaves, well you can part ways since you both aren't looking for the same thing. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 6:35 pm ] |
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Tell them you've been hurt before, are playing it slow, are not looking to jump into another relationship right away, you are picky, you are cautious, and you are seeing what's out there. What you don't want to say is that you just want a fuck buddy, or you're not looking for anything serious, or that you don't want a girlfriend. You want to make it seem like you could be open to it in the future but are just playing it cautiously rather than jumping into a hasty relationship. Girls will respect that. |
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| Author: | Crypto [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 8:10 pm ] |
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Im not ready to get serious with anyone right now... |
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| Author: | fourhundred [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 4:38 am ] |
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Quote: Tell them you've been hurt before, are playing it slow, are not looking to jump into another relationship right away, you are picky, you are cautious, and you are seeing what's out there. What you don't want to say is that you just want a fuck buddy, or you're not looking for anything serious, or that you don't want a girlfriend. You want to make it seem like you could be open to it in the future but are just playing it cautiously rather than jumping into a hasty relationship. Girls will respect that.
Thanks man, that's great help. I can just use that and build from it. I feel like I can use the excuse of being in a LTR recently to my advantage as well. Is that a good idea?
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