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| Author: | phangan [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 3:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | If a newbie would ask me for ONE tip on how to get laid: |
I just finished writing another blog post and realized a very simple and powerful truth that sounds maybe TOO simplistic, borderline idiotic: If a newbie would ask me for just ONE tip on how to get laid – this would be it: get the girl alone with you in a room with a bed. Period. That’s 80% of the job right there. Keep telling yourself these two words: "ALONE" and "BED". That's it. Once you're there, a makeout turns into fucking. It's only natural. Let nature take over and do the work for you. I'm sure that the advanced guys here can relate to this. Remember: ALONE. BED. Simple. |
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| Author: | KimPa [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 3:31 pm ] |
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I agree to a certain extend. However, it's not always that simple. Let's say you are already friendzoned or the girl is in a serious relationship. She comes over to your place, you start escalating she feels weird.. You continue escalating and try to kiss her. She rejects you most probably.. I'm not saying rejecting is bad.. It's actually great for you. So what I'm trying to say, what you stated is true in most cases, but not in all. If someone asked me how to get laid, I would suggest they increase going out and socializing more! Eventually they will get laid if they observe what is going around them, what works and what doesn't. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 4:05 pm ] |
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Good advice, but it's an oversimplification. Most guys who have problems getting laid can't even open a set, let alone run a routine, build attraction, and seduce a girl into their bedroom. Telling an AFC to find a bed and a broad is not very useful advice. Also, one time I had a girl in my bed. I was gnawing at her groin through her shorts, doing everything in my power to seduce her and get my hands on her and get her unclothed. She put up some hardcore LMR. Eventually she was like "If you keep doing this I won't trust you anymore." So I had to stop. That just goes to show that getting a girl in your bed is only half the battle. |
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| Author: | phangan [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 4:21 pm ] |
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Yes yes... everything you're saying is true. But to get a girl to your room and alone - you'll need to open sets, socialize and do the rest anyway. So ultimately, if you concise everything into two words and two words only - they would be: "Alone" and "bed". I'm not talking "friend zone". If a girl is your friend you shouldn't be trying to bang her anyway. Go out instead and find a new girl to get ALONE with, near a BED. That's it. Seriously. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 4:34 pm ] |
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Some guys fuck girls in bathrooms. My buddy did a girl while standing upright at a concert. Backseat of a car is possible too. It's not always about the bed bro. |
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| Author: | KimPa [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 5:01 pm ] |
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Besides, most of the AFCs don't know when they are being friendzoned.. They think if a chick laughs for their jokes and smiles to them that the chick is into him.. Sorry bud, but it's much more than just bed and alone.. Well at least it's not a rule |
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| Author: | phangan [ Tue Oct 23, 2012 5:49 pm ] |
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Quote: Some guys fuck girls in bathrooms. My buddy did a girl while standing upright at a concert. Backseat of a car is possible too. It's not always about the bed bro.
I banged a girl on a roof top, the beach and in a car - in one night. That's not the point, it's just extreme cases. The average bang takes place on a bed, right? So get the girl to a bed. That's the point. To have a line in your head that takes you from meeting the girl to your bed. That's the whole idea behind the "two minutes two minutes" "it's over there" "after party, free drinks" "lets jump to my place and then go out again" lines. They get the girl to your room. It's 80% logistics. GET THE GIRL TO A BED AND THE REST WILL FOLLOW. |
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| Author: | vicparkguy83 [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 5:10 am ] |
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That is pretty much what I do, I just do whatever I can to get them to my place and if they come you've pretty much already F-closed them. Or going to theirs, same thing, almost all turn into F-closes. Isolation is a huge part of game. |
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| Author: | VanPelt [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 3:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: If a newbie would ask me for ONE tip on how to get laid: |
Quote: I just finished writing another blog post and realized a very simple and powerful truth that sounds maybe TOO simplistic, borderline idiotic:
I think the best thing to say to a complete beginner if you have just 20 seconds is to avoid masturbating for at least a week, - period - and that's it.If a newbie would ask me for just ONE tip on how to get laid – this would be it: get the girl alone with you in a room with a bed. Period. That’s 80% of the job right there. Keep telling yourself these two words: "ALONE" and "BED". That's it. Once you're there, a makeout turns into fucking. It's only natural. Let nature take over and do the work for you. I'm sure that the advanced guys here can relate to this. Remember: ALONE. BED. Simple. many people don't realize yet we all know how to be alpha, because we are the result of hundreds of generations of mates actually doing their goal of procreating, but thanks to modern society its so deep in our subconscious we don't realize it because its not anymore the first priority to procreate today, because there are many things that can stimulate the release of dopamine(motivation) in our brains aniway (porn, movies, videogames, drugs, nicotine, alcohol, whatever). That's why when anyone reads one of these seduction books they realize its never something new, its something they knew but just forgot of it............. ever thought of that? so, concluding fast, abstaining from masturbation will actually mean to your body "Hey Instinct! i need you back here", and your instinct will remember the stuff you already know and deal with anxiety in a better way than studied material would |
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| Author: | Deadeyexx [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 4:04 pm ] |
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Very nice. Of all the oversimplified advice I've seen on this forum, this piece is the most true. There's so many different ways to achieve it too. A lot of newbies strive to be cool or high status, even though they hate the lifestyle that comes with it. Boiling it down this far gives them other options that might fit thier personality more. |
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| Author: | Little Panda [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 4:40 pm ] |
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The instinctual process of getting laid is not where the issue lies for people who want success with women. It's the process of actually getting her to be alone with you on a bed. |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 4:42 pm ] |
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This opens up the discussion of creating value and game based on your place. Like having a nice clean house or apartment, making your bed, having high thread count sheets, and using Glade plug-ins. If it's all about getting the girl into your bedroom, then you need to have a good reason to bring her there and it needs to be nice and comfortable once she gets there. Something to think about. |
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| Author: | vicparkguy83 [ Wed Oct 24, 2012 11:49 pm ] |
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When I first got into PUA I was trying to master all the forms of game, and while I was getting pussy it was soaking up a lot of my time. Now I don't do 80% of PUA stuff. I just focus one two key aspects, escalation and isolation. I open, escalate almost immediately, then try and isolate, if I meet a girl out I'm trying to isolate after mere minutes. Some chicks are just looking to get their pussies filled ASAP so why fart around. And I spend much less time gaming than I used to, and getting more F-closes. |
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| Author: | phangan [ Thu Oct 25, 2012 8:54 pm ] |
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Quote: When I first got into PUA I was trying to master all the forms of game, and while I was getting pussy it was soaking up a lot of my time.
Read my "007 Game" dance floor posts. If I feel a girl is not DTF that night - I'll eject within.... 10 seconds. I'm serious, 10 seconds is all I give them.
Now I don't do 80% of PUA stuff. I just focus one two key aspects, escalation and isolation. I open, escalate almost immediately, then try and isolate, if I meet a girl out I'm trying to isolate after mere minutes. Some chicks are just looking to get their pussies filled ASAP so why fart around. And I spend much less time gaming than I used to, and getting more F-closes. |
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