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| Author: | tostrong [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 4:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Girlfriend wants a job as a shot girl |
So my gf wants to get a job as a shot girl / waitress at a club...mostly because it is quick and easy money. I am uneasy about this! I told her she can do what ever she would like but to be honest I don't like the idea of it at all! I know some of you will say "you have inner game issues" but realistically would any of you really want you gf working in a bar?? Opinions? |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 4:48 am ] |
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as long as she is bringing home da bacon(I get to spend less), no problems here. |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 7:26 am ] |
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if she is your girlfriend and you can't trust her, she shouldn't be your girlfriend in the first place |
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| Author: | tostrong [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 11:17 am ] |
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Its not about trust, but rather about the situation she is putting her self into. I think we can all cheat but the people who remain faithful are the ones who get them selfs out of bad situations. I have a few budies and know some girls who work in bars and most of them are like the party life style, party after work, party on their days off, sleep with each other ect ect...not really the kind of thing I want my gf around. Maybe im wrong? |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 11:46 am ] |
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Quote: Its not about trust, but rather about the situation she is putting her self into. I think we can all cheat but the people who remain faithful are the ones who get them selfs out of bad situations.
guarenteed if she is attractive she is in a position where she could cheat any day, any time, all she needs is facebook, her working at a bar, really makes no difference, there still has to be a willingness to cheat, cheating is very much so a concious choice and is a relatively easy task for an attractive girl to pull offQuote: I have a few budies and know some girls who work in bars and most of them are like the party life style, party after work, party on their days off, sleep with each other ect ect...not really the kind of thing I want my gf around.
cool, you have a friend, and know some waitresses and they like to party and fuck... cool cool, you don't want your girlfriend to partyok, well good luck with that, you can't really control what she does, if she wants to party, she'll find a way to do it, same thing with cheating, if she wants to cheat, she'll find a way to do it Quote: Maybe im wrong?
maybe you are, maybe you are not, only you know your girlfriend, and realistically, you either trust her or you don't, and if you don't and that's an issue for you, then you probably shouldn't be dating her in the first place, you should instead find a girl that you trusthave you expressed your concerns with your girlfriend? |
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| Author: | Snarg [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 1:15 pm ] |
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Not by choice, but by luck/coincidence, I always seem to end up dating bartenders. Two of my LTR girlfriends have been bartenders. Three girls who I've dated over the last few weeks have been bartenders as well. You need to realize a few things about this profession: 1) Most of the guys who go to bars will not focus on the bartender; they'll focus on the other customers. 2) The guys who DO hit on the bartender tend to have shitty game. I know it's a common belief that pickup is becoming insanely popular and everyone does it now, but that's not the case. 99.9% of all guys still have absolutely no fucking game. My ex used to tell me about all the pathetic attempts guys used to make to get her number and it's laughable. 3) Like pumpington said, if she's going to cheat, she's going to cheat. Her profession is irrelevant. What happens when she goes to the mall, or a bar, or anywhere else? There are guys everywhere. You need to either trust her or get rid of her if she's given you a reason not to. A woman will not cheat on you if you are fulfilling her needs, both physically and emotionally. If you don't give her a reason to cheat, she probably won't. And if for some reason she does cheat, don't you think you're worth more than that anyway? Let this serve as a test to determine if she'll be faithful in the future, or if she's a total slut. Would you rather find out now, or 5 years from now? |
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| Author: | dark one [ Mon Oct 22, 2012 1:56 pm ] |
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Tostrong I understand where you are coming from but like other have said you either trust her or you don't. Of course no man wants to think about his gf getting hit on...will there be a higher likely hood of her cheating if she is a bartender? YES, there will be, but if you are confident and secure in your self then it shouldn't be an issue, and if she does end up cheating then ditch her, its better to find out now then 10 years down the road when you are married to her. Give her 100% of your trust! if she messes that up then dump her. I know its hard to hear! and hard to wrap your head around but some girls will cheat regardless and if your gf is one of those girls you will soon find out! if anything its a blessing not a curse...its kind of like a test to see how strong your relationship is, and how faithful your gf is. |
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