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| Author: | cbredeyejedi [ Fri Oct 19, 2012 3:09 am ] |
| Post subject: | need help closing/ BF obstacle... |
so this girl tells me she is broken up with her BF and so i invite her out for a drink a few days later after flirting and getting good feedback. she texts back. "sorry i didnt text back sooner blah blah i dont know if its a good idea we hang outside of work i have a bf and wouldnt wanna disrespect him." me- "thats too bad i thought we could have some fun together. you already have a new bf since the last one, moving quick eh? and who said im going to rip off all your clothes once we are alone i can play nice." her- i dont think that blah blah i just dont make good decisions sometimes when i drink and ive been with this guy for 3 years and im over it. its just he's out of town untill xmas and i dont want to break up via text. Im sure you can play nice!" she says sorry for giving me the wrong idea and i told her its ok i just she was single and i thought she was kinda sexy. her-you think im sexy me- would you hold it against me if i said yes? her- Nah i think your quite sexy yourself! end convo- so how am i supposed to play that angle... im lost, she wants it i can tell but shes not going to cheat easily or break up via text. |
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| Author: | Vitamin-J [ Fri Oct 19, 2012 3:47 am ] |
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Don't game girls with boyfriends, it's unethical (in my mind) and the biggest reason, they're way too much work and never end well. set her aside for a later date and move on to the next. |
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| Author: | cbredeyejedi [ Fri Oct 19, 2012 3:53 am ] |
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well she originally told me she was single... and made it very clear shes not with him for long. I'd never touch a married woman or a happy bf/gf relatioship but i feel like i can prompt this along faster then waiting for xmas .. |
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| Author: | Ravengage [ Fri Oct 19, 2012 4:01 am ] |
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Ok first of all, forget all this moral crap about not gaming a "taken" girl. Its not your responsibility to make sure she doesn't cheat, its hers. If she is happily taken and in a healthy relationship then she will reject you, its as simple as that. If she doesn't reject you then that was her choice and obviously she was open to an upgrade (or whatever it is you have her). *Of course if the BF is a friend of yours that changes things completely. Now on to your question, never neg her about going through guys too fast. That's a perfect way to INCREASE her ASD not decrease it. You're shooting yourself in the foot here. For one you're coming off as whiny, and two you're basically calling her easy which will make her less likely to do anything with you because she will wanna show that she wasn't easy after all. What you did right was turning the tables on her and saying that you can easily just hang out. You're never gonna seduce her via text, your texting needs to basically be in the friend zone to get her to you physically and then seduce her with far more reliable methods. If she brings up sex stuff in text just dance around it. |
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| Author: | cbredeyejedi [ Fri Oct 19, 2012 4:07 am ] |
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awsome man that gives me a little to work with. So i should prob do something later on that seems more innocent and leave all the escalation for in person.. yea now that i think about it i should have left the new guy part out i didnt mean it in a whiney manor but more of a joke but over text it can be percieved any way you want. |
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| Author: | Vitamin-J [ Sat Oct 20, 2012 4:04 am ] |
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Quote: Ok first of all, forget all this moral crap about not gaming a "taken" girl. Its not your responsibility to make sure she doesn't cheat, its hers. If she is happily taken and in a healthy relationship then she will reject you, its as simple as that. If she doesn't reject you then that was her choice and obviously she was open to an upgrade (or whatever it is you have her).
It's sociopathic mind sets and behaviors like this that create "broken" women and dramatic messes. Girls feel far more stress, anxiety and guilt over cheating than men do. 1. You don't want a girl that cheats, even it it was with you. you'll never be able to trust her, you'll get jealous and everything will fall apart in the end. I've seen it a million times and it's happened to me at least twice lol 2. There will be less drama if you move on and find a girl that's single to game, no crying, no guilt, no stress. The only reason I've ever seen for a guy to chase a girl like this, is a deeper insecurity that causes guys to blindly run after a girl that gave him a little attention because they get so little attention form other girls.... |
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