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| Author: | the_kev [ Thu Oct 18, 2012 2:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Newbie here needing help! |
I am new to the art of PUA , greetings all! But I need help in a particular situation I'm in - went out with a couple of girls I live with for a social in a society they joined - was trying to get a girls number that night and I did in the end only problem is my SPAM got it for me when i lost track of the girl and she went into the toilet! So i didn't get to chat to her except to give her a quick hug before we left - I texted her the next night (wednesday) ,just to build something with her - I'm kinda stuck now I'm thinking of asking her out for drinks on friday (tomorrow night) , usually I would call but since I didnt get to chat to her much on the night I'm thinking of texting her to see if shes free - am I asking her for a meet up too soon? where would you guys go from here? Just ask me if you need more details. thanks! |
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| Author: | Streetfighter [ Thu Oct 18, 2012 2:51 pm ] |
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meet up for coffee. simple and non threatening and have a plan if the 'date' goes well you can ask her to join you at the museum or to watch a movie. an attractive girl wont be free on a friday night, and nor should you unless you're inviting her to a party (shows you're in demand/fun) |
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| Author: | beingattractive [ Thu Oct 18, 2012 4:33 pm ] |
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If you didn't talk to her a lot during that night, and you left without her really seeing your personality, take it slow. Whenever Ive gotten a girls phone number in under 3 minutes, i found that its best to text them for a good while, once you know that she is interested talk to her on the phone, but don't invite her anywhere yet. You didn't get to build attraction with her during that day, so you have to build it slowly on the phone. You don't want to text or call her constantly or invite her to soon. This always works for me. |
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| Author: | the_kev [ Thu Oct 18, 2012 5:18 pm ] |
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Okay cool I see where you're both coming from, yeah I was going to try and chat to her and get her number personally but was inadvertently cockblocked by a SPAM ha! I'll leave it for today and get on texting her either tomorrow or saturday & build to calling for a meet up (I'm actually back in my hometown for a bday night out saturday, should I mention that to seem like an indemand guy?). Cheers btw fellas! |
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