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Author:  MackAttack [ Mon Oct 15, 2012 7:02 pm ]
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Just approached this girl in my religious studies class (im in college) and needed an excuse to talk to her so I asked for class notes, made it somewhat funny and we quickly started talking about each others religions etc. (shes muslim)

I was literally out of breath, I was like "damn you got me out of breath, you talk so fast) this girl wouldn't stop talking... I guess thats just how she is.

And shes an interior design student lives on residence, but I don't. Anyways, without me asking... she took my number, and said she's gonna text me

This girl is hot as fuck, and theres a big project where we have to go to a Sikh temple, she was gonna go with her girlfriend, but I told her my uncles the president of the committee there, and he'll help us out, we'll go together.


I need help on going to the next stage and keep on building attraction in the upcoming classes, how should I go about it?

Should I sit next to her from now on in class? and shes in interior design, any negs on that much appreciated.
Author:  Body Language [ Mon Oct 15, 2012 7:10 pm ]
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I am really sorry if this sounds ignorant but do you get Muslims who are DTF? Is that not kind of sacrilege?

My personal plan would be to be seen talking to other women but make her "special" so talk to as many girls as possible but sit next to her. Oh and touch her if that is a possibility (again my ignorance of Islam showing) Unless you show your part of the party and are friendly and chatty to everyone you might come across a bit clingy :?

As for building attraction you should know what to do if you are on these forums!!!!
Author:  KimPa [ Mon Oct 15, 2012 7:21 pm ]
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Coming from a half muslim country, i can tell you girls there are the same any other catholic girls or whatever. It really depends on whether she is religious or not and whether she is waiting for marriage, etc. Anyway, escalate slowly. Hug when you meet, and tell her she smells good. Also, when you are alone create a sexual vibe and frame. It doesnt mean talk about sex straight away. What works for me is that im friendly to the girls im not interested in class, so they always great me when i come in and i talk to a lot of them bout whatever. This will make her believe u are pretty popular around girls and she will be more interested this way. I can go on forever on what to do man, but those are the basics.
Author:  MackAttack [ Mon Oct 15, 2012 7:24 pm ]
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she doesn't seem religious though, and she told me her family isn't too much either. They live in ontario, and shes just here for school. But the whole hugging thing, telling her she smells good... Isn't that a bit too much, I just met her. I messed up tho I didn't even do any KINO in the first meet, AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH shit.
Author:  KimPa [ Mon Oct 15, 2012 7:29 pm ]
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Not at all! The earlier the better! Guys get stuck in the friendzone because they wait too long! Telling her she looks cute, she seems like one of the cool kids, or anything really would give you advantage over the other guys and she will see u as a potential lover instead of a potential friend
Author:  MackAttack [ Mon Oct 15, 2012 7:31 pm ]
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Not at all! The earlier the better! Guys get stuck in the friendzone because they wait too long! Telling her she looks cute, she seems like one of the cool kids, or anything really would give you advantage over the other guys and she will see u as a potential lover instead of a potential friend

Whats a good compliment I can throw out there for her to chew on, but with a little mystery behind it
Author:  KimPa [ Mon Oct 15, 2012 7:39 pm ]
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I never compliment on something she already have. For example, her eyes or nose, etc... She was built like that and she didnt really work to make look like that. If you see that her hair looks like she spend long time on it then say it looks good.. Normally, i dont go that way and compliment on their looks but it worked for others. You can always say you like something about her personality or character or whatever bullshit that comes to ur mind. This will show her that u are not only interested in how she looks, but in her personality too! If you think you are funny, make her laugh! Girls love funny cocky guys so you can do that for attraction too.
Author:  MackAttack [ Mon Oct 15, 2012 7:45 pm ]
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I never compliment on something she already have. For example, her eyes or nose, etc... She was built like that and she didnt really work to make look like that. If you see that her hair looks like she spend long time on it then say it looks good.. Normally, i dont go that way and compliment on their looks but it worked for others. You can always say you like something about her personality or character or whatever bullshit that comes to ur mind. This will show her that u are not only interested in how she looks, but in her personality too! If you think you are funny, make her laugh! Girls love funny cocky guys so you can do that for attraction too.
Shes got a pretty good sense of style too, so should I sit next to her in class next time, shes all alone in the front, and I usually sit in the back, or would that come off as too clingy
Author:  KimPa [ Mon Oct 15, 2012 7:49 pm ]
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Seems like you get it sorted then. It's not clingy at all. If you want to sit next to her then do it! Neg for being a nerd if you want too. Just be confident and funny! Thats all you need
Author:  *FlaiR* [ Mon Oct 15, 2012 11:47 pm ]
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There are no magical tricks or tactics to get any girl. You learn how to get girls in general and than you act the same with the girl you want.

This is a lifestyle. There's no quick-fix to get the girl..being attractive is something you are, not something you do.

Go out, learn how and to what women respond to and than you'll be able to get your girl. Or else you're just placing wayy too much importance on her, which will make you needy and kill every chance that you have with her.


FlaiR
Author:  MackAttack [ Tue Oct 16, 2012 6:09 am ]
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There are no magical tricks or tactics to get any girl. You learn how to get girls in general and than you act the same with the girl you want.

This is a lifestyle. There's no quick-fix to get the girl..being attractive is something you are, not something you do.

Go out, learn how and to what women respond to and than you'll be able to get your girl. Or else you're just placing wayy too much importance on her, which will make you needy and kill every chance that you have with her.


FlaiR
so I'm confused on just one thing, should I sit beside her next class? or just stay in the back? she's the only one in the front row and this class has been going on for a good month now
Author:  *FlaiR* [ Tue Oct 16, 2012 5:12 pm ]
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There are no magical tricks or tactics to get any girl. You learn how to get girls in general and than you act the same with the girl you want.

This is a lifestyle. There's no quick-fix to get the girl..being attractive is something you are, not something you do.

Go out, learn how and to what women respond to and than you'll be able to get your girl. Or else you're just placing wayy too much importance on her, which will make you needy and kill every chance that you have with her.


FlaiR
so I'm confused on just one thing, should I sit beside her next class? or just stay in the back? she's the only one in the front row and this class has been going on for a good month now
This is your problem. Wether you sit next to her or you're not even in the same class is irrelevant. You're so in your head, that you don't even know on what chair to sit on.

Dude, sit where you want, seduction doesn't work like that. It's the emotions that the girl feels around you. Because you're fixating on this girl and you're micro-managing every little move of yours to make her like you, you're creating a huge amount of outcome dependence. Being like this will make you sub-communicate a lot of neediness and an attitude that girls will not want to sleep with you / date you.

Again, you need to learn how to relate as a man to a woman..and that's done through going out and seeking reference points on what to do and what not to do. Through the process of accumulating reference experiences, your brain will have clear distinctions of what's attractive behaviour and what's not..what gets girls and what drives girls away..


FlaiR
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