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| Author: | Pbblade [ Sun Oct 14, 2012 10:00 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Really frustrated at the moment, dunno if i'm doing it wrong |
Things are seriously working against the odds for me, I'm not sure if my game is bad, that i'm intidimating to girls, or that my surroundings are just fucked up. Girls here in Belgium are very annoying to game, if you go out and open up in any possible way, they will always reject you. It's all about social network and it's very hard to infiltrate as an outsider. I've been talking to girls around me that i know for years and when i ask them if they'd furthur communicate with a stranger that came by to say hi they all give me the same answer, ''No.. I dont know the guy''. I find it hard to believe that all girls just instantly say no when they meet a stranger, how else are you ever gonna expand your network? I've often heard from girls aswell that i'm very intidimating looking, head is shaven on the sides, i'm wearing an eyebrow piercing and an earring, every time i do get into a conversation with a girl they end up being surprised at the way i am. I'm generally a very fun guy to hang around with with alot of humor and no over-confident behaviour. I guess the question is simple, how in gods name do you interact with these sort of chicks? |
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| Author: | Chinopants [ Sun Oct 14, 2012 10:09 pm ] |
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oh man there a process of disarming them & having them believe that you hold higher value over them. Cocky funny is a good start. Also an arua of you are there not to pick them up but to offer them something fun & exciting. Let on also that you are not going to stick around but just taking up a minuet. From that small intro to when you said you got to be going you need to bring something to the table and not beers, Show that you're that fun lovable guy that you said you are and bring same as or more energy to the set. |
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| Author: | Pbblade [ Sun Oct 14, 2012 10:18 pm ] |
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Quote: oh man there a process of disarming them & having them believe that you hold higher value over them. Cocky funny is a good start. Also an arua of you are there not to pick them up but to offer them something fun & exciting. Let on also that you are not going to stick around but just taking up a minuet. From that small intro to when you said you got to be going you need to bring something to the table and not beers, Show that you're that fun lovable guy that you said you are and bring same as or more energy to the set.
Could you give me some examples about the disarming process? The thing that I do find myself having trouble with is bringing up unique topics or have a different type of conversation, when it comes down to socializing, i'm definatly not the best, do you have any suggestions on how to improve that part aswell? I feel that i need the originality to keep the energie flowing, dull conversations get boring really fast.
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| Author: | NikAFC [ Sun Oct 14, 2012 10:34 pm ] |
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Normally I would suggest you just to neg/open them but because of your peacocking (congrats btw I can imagine you looking really cool ) i'll give you 2 ways of opening. First is simple Just say "Hello what's your name". her:"sarah" you:"Hi sarah i'm Pbblade" and go on with whatever you want. Second if they are just bitchy and they don't even care about how well u look. Just neg them: "Nice dress. It hides your belly very well" or use some of ur negs or situational one Good luck bro 
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| Author: | Pbblade [ Mon Oct 15, 2012 12:58 am ] |
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Quote: Normally I would suggest you just to neg/open them but because of your peacocking (congrats btw I can imagine you looking really cool ) i'll give you 2 ways of opening. First is simple
Just say "Hello what's your name". her:"sarah" you:"Hi sarah i'm Pbblade" and go on with whatever you want. Second if they are just bitchy and they don't even care about how well u look. Just neg them: "Nice dress. It hides your belly very well" or use some of ur negs or situational one Good luck bro Thanks for the answer bro, all advice is welcome. Gotta admit though, it sounds pretty easy in theory, does it work that well in practice? I was thinking about doing more normal openers like the ones you mentioned, I think if there's some sort of interest the girls wont tell you to fuck off unless they're real bitches or seriously shit testing you. I'd love using more negs but i have a feeling these girls wont have an answer to them and take a huge hit to their self center, which would result into a bad situation obviously. |
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| Author: | HeavyRota8tion [ Mon Oct 15, 2012 1:09 am ] |
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Quote: Normally I would suggest you just to neg/open them but because of your peacocking (congrats btw I can imagine you looking really cool ) i'll give you 2 ways of opening. First is simple
Yea, make a woman feel bad about herself, great way to pick them up. *shakes head
Just say "Hello what's your name". her:"sarah" you:"Hi sarah i'm Pbblade" and go on with whatever you want. Second if they are just bitchy and they don't even care about how well u look. Just neg them: "Nice dress. It hides your belly very well" or use some of ur negs or situational one Good luck bro |
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| Author: | VietnameseProdigy [ Mon Oct 15, 2012 2:55 am ] |
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Ahh, there was a documentary about rude guys in Belgium. So a college student, A REALLY HOT ONE. Was portraying the men in Belgium as rude and horny. She went around the streets. And she was approached a lot by men who had no game. They did the usual, let me take you out to dinner sometime. Or a bunch of obnoxious pussies who would scream at her when she walked by. But a lot of men were harassing her when she would reject them. This documentary gained a lot of popularity as the belgium government was considering passing a law to make approaching women illegal of some sort. Also in the documentary it talked about how a lot of muslims were the problems for these sorts of harassments. |
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| Author: | TheAccountant [ Mon Oct 15, 2012 3:56 am ] |
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It seems like the best approach would be under the guise of friendship. It is way less threatening and would help you to garner their trust. One of my best openers? " TA:"Hi, I'm TA, I am just out to meet new people tonight. I go to the same bars with my friends all the time and I wanted to mix it up, what's your name?" this tends to work out, no fancy opener, just honest game. Who knows where it can lead... -TA |
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| Author: | NikAFC [ Mon Oct 15, 2012 7:22 pm ] |
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Quote: Quote: Normally I would suggest you just to neg/open them but because of your peacocking (congrats btw I can imagine you looking really cool ) i'll give you 2 ways of opening. First is simple
Yea, make a woman feel bad about herself, great way to pick them up. *shakes headJust say "Hello what's your name". her:"sarah" you:"Hi sarah i'm Pbblade" and go on with whatever you want. Second if they are just bitchy and they don't even care about how well u look. Just neg them: "Nice dress. It hides your belly very well" or use some of ur negs or situational one Good luck bro |
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| Author: | HeavyRota8tion [ Tue Oct 16, 2012 12:56 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: Quote: Normally I would suggest you just to neg/open them but because of your peacocking (congrats btw I can imagine you looking really cool ) i'll give you 2 ways of opening. First is simple
Yea, make a woman feel bad about herself, great way to pick them up. *shakes headJust say "Hello what's your name". her:"sarah" you:"Hi sarah i'm Pbblade" and go on with whatever you want. Second if they are just bitchy and they don't even care about how well u look. Just neg them: "Nice dress. It hides your belly very well" or use some of ur negs or situational one Good luck bro |
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| Author: | NikAFC [ Wed Oct 17, 2012 5:15 am ] |
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Quote: Quote: Quote:
Yea, make a woman feel bad about herself, great way to pick them up. *shakes head
Yea, make her feel good about herself, great way for her to reject you. *nods headMy point here was that your opinion about my advice isn't correct. I am trying to help the guy weather as you are only criticizing my advice based on no justified reasoning behind it. I know why you are doing this, because but it's not about you. So show some respect to the guys that are actually going out and asking for advice. What is key you are not trying to help him at all I don't have any more time to waste with sad guys like you so have a nice life |
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