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| Author: | Keitaro [ Sun Oct 14, 2012 6:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Club Game |
Hey guys, this is probably a common problem but I am hitting those transitional road bumps moving from learning game (reading, forums, etc.) to more practical and in-field work. I know that deeper internalization of what I learned can help me more but I am also looking for more practice (I admit, more immediate) advice.I'm writing this now as because I have an example fresh in my mind but here is the question first: How do can I approach/open girls in a club, bar, or other high-energy scene? More specifically, how do I approach groups of high-energy dancing people and either dance, open, pick-up, or any combination of the three with the girls (w/o being creepy)? My story: When I'm out, I usually like to go around, vibe, and dance to the SPAM but I don't really get that mingling part down. I can identify the different groups in the club but its just hard for me to get in them. The only *in* I kind of have is my dancing. I know that I rely heavily on my dancing and being honest with myself I see myself forming a crutch where I just dance in my own world until I get a IOI. Using dancing as bait is ok but I want to be able to follow through with it too; all I end up doing is dancing with them and maybe have a very brief convo. I would like to be able to open girls with or without my dancing. It would be nice to know how to enter these groups because I don't think I can really walk pass and throw out an opener when I can hardly hear myself and everyone else is dancing energetically, right? |
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| Author: | HardToKill [ Sun Oct 14, 2012 7:06 pm ] |
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Sounds strange, but have you got a wingman? I find approaching at clubs works better in pairs. |
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| Author: | Keitaro [ Sun Oct 14, 2012 7:16 pm ] |
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No that's a fair question. Wingmans can sure help (I would like to do this on my own too though). To be honest, I usually go with a group of guys. However, one of them is a tall, handsome turkish guy who goes off and hits on girls while the other guys shadow him. I can tell that he's mostly relying on his looks and does't have much else(from seeing the interactions from afar and learning of his results later) but I try not to focus on him because I don't want to unconsciously have a complex of him and me (more specifically, his game and my game). Probably should find a better support group but I'm new to the area. |
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| Author: | skills360 [ Sun Oct 14, 2012 7:29 pm ] |
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Follow my club post, in the approach and opening, watch my videos: www.youtube.com/dancefloorseduction |
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