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Author:  SoFly [ Sun Oct 14, 2012 3:28 pm ]
Post subject:  How to break a girl up from her boyfriend?
I'm not 100% sure a girl i met has a boyfriend. It may be a excuse or may be true. She's a HB9 Btw. I need some help...
This is what has been going on: In my classes, she's always smiling at me, playing with her hair, getting up slowly from her desk when i'm around her and is very responsive to me. Also, whenever i talk to her she talk's to me instantly, and always looks in my eye's. Recently, i asked her out and she took time to get away from her friends, she was quite shy, so i started talking to her, so i made a joke or two she laughed and smiled and we walked down the corridor, then i asked her this whether she's free and she replied she has a boyfriend. I carried on talking, and said yeah, i hope this doesn't make our lessons together awkward.
-Whenever she see's me now, she smiles and what not.
-She talks with her friend while looking at me.
-I don't know. I can't read this girl.
-She's always Eye FUCKING me. (Mean's always is making serious eye contact).
(I Came off as rather confident and direct).
Author:  Rough Operator [ Sun Oct 14, 2012 3:34 pm ]
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Yeah, if your conscience is okay with it then game her as normal, she told you she has a bf to give you all the responsibility should anything happen between the two of you.
Author:  SirPounceAlot [ Sun Oct 14, 2012 3:44 pm ]
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how to break a girl up from her boyfriend.......

EASY...make yourself better than her boyfriend. Basically...do what you've been doing, because whatever it is, it making her subconsciously want you and well she probably knows now that she consciously does.

Girls use "they have a boyfriend" because there is no reason you would believe she doesn't. It's just a shit related test...

ASKING WHETHER SHE IS FREE WAS NOT A GOOD MOVE. Always expect that a girl IS FREE...EXCEPT...ALWAYS MAKE SURE you pay attention to the ring finger.

I don't know about your morals or ethics but if there is a ring there(which there isn't because you 2 seem young)...then leave the girl alone, you could be screwing up an entire family. That's my take...

NEVER ask if they are single...
...I'm in college...with this girl...her friend mentions/asks if she has a boyfriend...(guess he wanted her for himself) I'm sitting right next to her with my hand on her...she replies weirdly/looking around "uh yea..." ...ANY UH SOMETHING if anything like this comes up is also in a sense "garbage" it may be true, but it doesn't mean there's excitement and passion, and fun...so

if she replied with a "UH yes I'm not single..." HAVE FUN. If anything comes off as shes not sure, or doesn't like the answer...HAVE FUN.

Keep what I said in mind. Make her have fun...you'll have fun...and well that's how to keep them.
Author:  SoFly [ Mon Oct 15, 2012 3:11 pm ]
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*BUMP
Author:  SirPounceAlot [ Fri Oct 19, 2012 10:43 am ]
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Bump for??

Chose an answer given above... Most of the time it doesn't matter she has a boyfriend.

There is already something out there called the boyfriend destroyer... Google it.

I REALLY don't get how ppl can ask for help and then COMpLETELY disregard the answer given to them bc it's not what thu expected...get that out of ur head... Answers r answers... This is a Pua forum not a morals and ethics forum...u want the girl... Read my above post and understand that IT DOES NOT matter that she's taken...

What better answer to ur question could u be looking for? Do xyz and ull hve her in your room? That xyz exists... But it's more complicated and Long to write so that is why fastseduction.com/guide exists... So u can do ur own digging :)

Hve fun... Just completely forget she has a boyfriend bc it does not matter.
Author:  pumpington [ Fri Oct 19, 2012 12:14 pm ]
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hmmm, here are some ideas for you

1) you asked her out

2) she avoided going out with you and basically framed it as she is unavailable

now, what does this tell you? either...

1) she is unavailable and has a boyfriend

2) she is not currently interested in you

now, what are your solutions here?

1) move on to a different girl before you get attached to something that will only end up wasting your time

2) risk your time and being dissapointed and hurt emotionally to try to give her a higher quality of attention and put more effort into making her feel good and gaining her trust/getting around her issues and the logistics

really it's up to you what you do, but eventually you have to draw the line at some point as to when you will stop yourself, if you have no limit on yourself it could go full blown oneitis and she will suck you in and you will get addicted and lose your self in the process
Author:  SoFly [ Fri Oct 19, 2012 9:51 pm ]
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Thank you for the reply Sir Pumpington, Also thank you everyone, i really appreciate your reply's. :D
Currently, i've not given two shit's to this girl, i've been acting cool, Only been talking to her when she want's to talk to me. I've moved on. But it look's like she's trying to impress or some bullshit. She's been playing with her hair recently, moving it around, fixing it and looking in my direction a couple of times during class. I've decided i'm moving on from her.
-From now on, i'm going to apply the rule called "Don't ever chase". I'll let her come to me.
Author:  pumpington [ Fri Oct 19, 2012 10:09 pm ]
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Quote:
Thank you for the reply Sir Pumpington, Also thank you everyone, i really appreciate your reply's. :D
Currently, i've not given two shit's to this girl, i've been acting cool, Only been talking to her when she want's to talk to me. I've moved on. But it look's like she's trying to impress or some bullshit. She's been playing with her hair recently, moving it around, fixing it and looking in my direction a couple of times during class. I've decided i'm moving on from her.
-From now on, i'm going to apply the rule called "Don't ever chase". I'll let her come to me.
just keep in mind, the more that is in it for her, the more she will want to invest, and when you held in high regard, you have more pull with her not wanting to lose your attention, but over doing it and trying to hard can lower her regard of you

the more indifferent you can remain emotionally towards the girl, the easier it is to see her behavior free from emotional influence
Author:  LD [ Fri Oct 19, 2012 10:44 pm ]
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Quote:
just keep in mind, the more that is in it for her, the more she will want to invest, and when you held in high regard, you have more pull with her not wanting to lose your attention, but over doing it and trying to hard can lower her regard of you

the more indifferent you can remain emotionally towards the girl, the easier it is to see her behavior free from emotional influence
Hi,

Indeed she avoids going 'on a date' and tells she is occupied. On the other hand, she seems interested, makes heavy eye contact. In any case, we are not there in your situation. I would go along with pump and say: she is playing games, but i am not sure.

Now, i find the advice of Pumpington to be a very good advice. i would even go further and say: the more you are emotionally uninvolved towards the outcome, the better. And even more: In times where i think women are playing games, the best way to go is bold and straightforward.

her games have affect on you because you are uncertain towards the meaning of it. You dont know whether she is interested in you or not and therefore -perhaps- you are afraid to make a move, a bold move. A move which shows your intentions and thoughts. Perhaps you fear to do so, because we as men feel ridiculous/ less worthy if we are openly rejected.

If you got the balls to do so, i would go to her and say: "hey, i do find you very attractive and i want you." or " i think you are sexy and i want to get to know you better". Actually, the exact words dont really matter, as long you make a bold move and say what it is you want. Then what she says doesnt really matter, it is what she does that will tell you how she feels. This does not mean however that you automatically will get the girl :). Take control of what you want. Have balls and dont be afraid of making a fool out of yourself :)

in any case, good luck!

cheers!
Author:  SoFly [ Sun Oct 21, 2012 2:31 pm ]
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Once again, thank's guy's. I'm going to follow LD and Pumpington's advice. If you guy's have more advice please share. :D (As in a Re-opener, Something Incredibly Alpha).
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