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Author:  tru3demon [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 11:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Need help Aplha-ing this HB10 for date
Hey guys, I need help from the super alpha game guys like puaninja. I sat beside this girl in my class today, absolutely bombshell. AND she has a tongue stud which is a huge turn on for me. anyways the convo goes something like this:

ME - Hey, are you that cute girl in my 331 lab?
HB10 - Yes I am haha (smiles so nice)
ME - I never got your name yesterday, I'm tru3demon
HB10 - I'm ___ nice to me you :)

We talk about what year of University we are in, what classes we are taking, some common interests and how much we both hate the class that we were currently in. I find out she works at a pub about 3 blocks from my house and we talk again after class:

ME - So what are you up to this weekend? Working?
HB10 - I work on saturday but it is ufc night at my pub, you should come and see me :)
ME - Oh? Me and my friends are having a beer night at the pub right across the street from where you work, when do you get off?
HB10 - I get off early so like 11ish
ME - Perfect! You should come drop by and party with me and my friends. It will be a blast of a night. We'll have some beers and dance the night away
HB10 - Sure! That sounds like a lot of fun. Better than anything else I could do after 11 lol. Nice meeting you, have a good day!
ME - Pleasure meeting you as well! See you saturday

So obviously #1, how did I do here? What could I have done to be more alpha? I know this girl is so hot she probably has 20 guys trying to pick her up at once so I need to be super memorable. I did not # close which probably was a mistake but I figure I'll see her monday in the worst case. Secondly, do I go see her at her work on saturday before the party to say hi or is that too needy and desperate? Too predictable? Any help would be greatly appreciated
Author:  tru3demon [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 11:09 pm ]
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i forgot to mention that the party I am going to will be a MASSIVE DHV. I know almost everyone there (30+) and we all have a crazy time. So I believe it would help a lot if she came
Author:  beingattractive [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 11:18 pm ]
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Good move on having her drop by your party! You'll have more social value there then at her place where she probably knows all the regulars. Plus it shows you already have plans.. DO NOT go and say hi to her before the party, thats way too needy.

I think you could have been more witty and challenging.. for example when she said "you should come and see me." say "uhhh... whats in it for me? :P" (whatever she says) then say "sounds (tempting, interesting, fun) but i already have plans etc..."

Personally i would also have left out the "Pleasure meeting you as well!" part... because its usually more of a pleasure for her to meet ME :P
Author:  tru3demon [ Sat Oct 13, 2012 1:53 am ]
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Thanks beingattractive! those were really good points and I will definitely implement them into my next approaches. I am really working on being less AFC and more alpha cause it gets the girls going lol. Any more suggestions?
Author:  Ravengage [ Sat Oct 13, 2012 2:08 am ]
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The only thing I'd caution you against is to not overdo it on the alpha unless you're damn sure it'll work. Confidence is great, fake confidence is shit. If she stops by at your party then obviously what you are already doing and your current personality is working so I wouldn't alter too much of it.

In fact I'd say that in general a good balance of confidence and humbleness/modesty will almost always beat out the guy who's trying to be 100% cocky alpha. I think you did just fine as is.
Author:  beingattractive [ Sat Oct 13, 2012 2:17 am ]
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No problem tru3demon. I love helping out guys, this stuff has help me more than I can imagine so I kinda also feel like I need to give back and help others like how other people helped me.

If you want to be more alpha, dont ask her, tell her. Lead not follow. Don't let stupid stuff shake your emotions. Be decisive and take control.

Just don't take it too far, find a balance. Thats key, balance. Don't be an obnoxious power hungry tyrant who treats people like slaves lol
Author:  VietnameseProdigy [ Sat Oct 13, 2012 8:10 am ]
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You don't "alpha" a girl.

Either you're already alpha, or you're not.

You're not an alpha.

And you're not gonna get this girl, you're needy as fuck
Author:  Ravengage [ Sat Oct 13, 2012 9:44 am ]
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You don't "alpha" a girl.

Either you're already alpha, or you're not.

You're not an alpha.

And you're not gonna get this girl, you're needy as fuck
That's some real good advice and encouragement you're giving there, truly helpful.

Don't listen to this crap tru3demon. The only part which is true is that you can't magically "alpha" a specific girl, you either are or are not. Currently you are not full alpha but neither are you needy. A needy AFC would have just gone straight for her invitation and meet on her terms. Forget this 100% alpha crap, you don't have to be Chuck Norris to get a girl. Its all about balance.
Author:  TheStranger [ Sat Oct 13, 2012 10:48 am ]
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Don't overthink it pal, the interaction by the looks of it, went very well. Now it's just wait and see if she turns up to your party... DONT go and see her before, not a good idea...
Author:  VietnameseProdigy [ Sat Oct 13, 2012 6:17 pm ]
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Quote:
You don't "alpha" a girl.

Either you're already alpha, or you're not.

You're not an alpha.

And you're not gonna get this girl, you're needy as fuck
That's some real good advice and encouragement you're giving there, truly helpful.

Don't listen to this crap tru3demon. The only part which is true is that you can't magically "alpha" a specific girl, you either are or are not. Currently you are not full alpha but neither are you needy. A needy AFC would have just gone straight for her invitation and meet on her terms. Forget this 100% alpha crap, you don't have to be Chuck Norris to get a girl. Its all about balance.
wrong mindset buddy. A person with abundance doesn't make threads about a SPECIFIC girl.

OP has scarcity, and is needy

go get more girls op
Author:  JamesWatson31 [ Sat Oct 13, 2012 7:18 pm ]
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There is no such thing as a HB10!

She has 2 tits and a pussy like they all do.

Take it easy and remember she is a kitten playing with the string.
Author:  HeavyRota8tion [ Sat Oct 13, 2012 7:47 pm ]
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There is no such thing as a HB10!

She has 2 tits and a pussy like they all do.

Take it easy and remember she is a kitten playing with the string.
String is so lame and very unmanly. I prefer the metaphor of a little girl playing around her daddy as he walks, the more incestuous the better;)
Author:  tru3demon [ Sat Oct 13, 2012 9:17 pm ]
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Hey guys, thanks for all the responses. I appreciate every detail even though some could have been a bit more constructive (vietnameseprodigy). I understand I am not a full alpha I never said I was. if i was i wouldnt be asking for help would I? I am a noob and have literally been on this forum for 2 weeks. I am learning and am asking for help on improving my game. i have been very AFC all my life and it worked to get a gf but now that im single again I want to be alpha. I have gotten 5 numbers since I started on sunday, and before you tell me how many more you have gotten this week remember that i dont care, so its not like i am going after ONE girl and thats it. i am just asking for some helpful tips and ways to act around this girl to try and improve my chances for a 1 on 1 date later and a k close on saturday. Thanks guys
Author:  Don Horneone [ Sat Oct 13, 2012 9:58 pm ]
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wrong mindset buddy. A person with abundance doesn't make threads about a SPECIFIC girl.
Guys do care about specific women. Always have, always will. This is the kind of territory where PUA gets so far up its own arse that it just becomes farcical.
Author:  0uch [ Sat Oct 13, 2012 10:57 pm ]
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If this girl is in your class and chances are high that you will see her again. I think you did the right thing.

#1 You conversation seem very chill. Which is good.

#2 You already had plans and you did not change it for her. Instead you invited her to join you without any pressure at all.

#3 If your seeing her again, not getting her contact the first time will probably help you out. Its making you non needy at all. I have worked it like this tons of time. Be sure to get her contact in future when you run into her.
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