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Author:  Beast 45 [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 8:59 pm ]
Post subject:  I'm pissed off, but should I show it?
This girl seriously pissed me off with what she did, still it doesn't mean I don't want to bang her. I'm not sure if I should just pretend nothing happened or if I should let her know that I'm pissed off so she won't do it again.
Author:  BITmixit [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 9:05 pm ]
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This girl seriously pissed me off with what she did, still it doesn't mean I don't want to bang her. I'm not sure if I should just pretend nothing happened or if I should let her know that I'm pissed off so she won't do it again.
Would help if we knew what she did mate.
Author:  Chinopants [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 9:43 pm ]
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Yeah what she do? Maybe you need to scold her like a little kid. A spanking might even be in order.
Author:  TheStranger [ Sat Oct 13, 2012 10:55 am ]
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I would say yeah, tell her what she did pissed you off and why it pissed you off... But as the previous posters said, it would help us to know what she did
Author:  Beast 45 [ Sat Oct 13, 2012 1:31 pm ]
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I really don't want to get in to it but if you are forcing me then ok. It was a girl that I was working on all week during the day and it was kind of unsaid that we would hook up. But I got to the bar late that night, I couldn't help it but I really couldn't go any earlier. I got there by 11.30 and the place was packed and so I couldn't find her. At about 12.30 I found her but she was making out with this total fucking AFC, I mean a guy about half as attractive as me with the charisma of a damp sponge. You don't know the kind of rage that can fucking cause. I stopped, turned around and walked away. I was THIS close to punching every guy who even barely bumped into me, I even almost picked a fight with a bouncer until another one turned up and threatened to throw me down a flight of stairs. I'm shocked that I even held myself pack that much as I can get very angry and boy, was I angry. After a while I decided to leave and I bumped into the girl again, this time without the guy. She tried to hug me but I kept her at arms length, she then said "I make a mistake." I said "I know, I saw, what a fucking mistake." Then she let go and I left.

Now I know that she was very very drunk, I could see that when she came up to me later. Either she didn't know what was happening or she simply won't remember, but I don't really give a fuck about that because I remember. I don't know which made me more angry, the fact that she did it or the fact that I thought she was a good girl type that needed lots of work, no she's just another slut. But she's a hot slut and it would be a shame to see all that work go to waste. So my question is, should I just forget it and pretend like nothing happened and just keep going as I was or should I let her know I'm pissed off and vent some anger before it gives me brain cancer.
Author:  John1001 [ Sat Oct 13, 2012 2:57 pm ]
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Had the same thing but I just grabbed another girl and made out with her, to be honest the day I went emotionless for girls was the day everything went cool. Let her come to you.

There are hotter girls everywhere.
Author:  Chinopants [ Sat Oct 13, 2012 5:38 pm ]
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Whatever Beast get over it. Seriously you getting oneitices over a girl makes you want to punch out people just cuz you're mad? You got a long hard road in front of you. She owes you nothing and you dropped the ball. Can't blame the guy she was making out with or even her. Well you can but you will not get anywhere.
Author:  Beast 45 [ Sat Oct 13, 2012 6:13 pm ]
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Seriously guys? A one-itis diagnosis seems to be the answer to everything. I've had one-itis before and I think I know the symptoms, I've been very careful not to fall into that trap and I really really haven't. Ok forget about any romantic intentions with this girl, I still run into her pretty regularly so my original question still stands. Pissed off or cool?
Author:  beingattractive [ Sat Oct 13, 2012 6:46 pm ]
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Beast, it sounds like your angry as hell about that, I would vent out some of that anger in a healthy way like working out or something first, before you talk to her. It's not healthy to keep all that anger in you.

Secondly, are you to dating? If not she kinda has the right to make out with guys or see anyone else lol. Don't try to be possessive. If you guys are dating then thats pretty messed up...

I would have at least heard her out when she said she made a mistake, she was honest enough to tell you, which deserves a lil bit of credit... I understand you must have been furious so you probably wasn't thinking.

My advice is to vent out your anger first to cool down, and then talk to her. Let her know that you had to leave because you were really upset, and then just let her talk. Then take it from there to see what you decide to do...

Hope that helps you broher
Author:  JamesWatson31 [ Sat Oct 13, 2012 7:15 pm ]
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Relax. What is she? A HB10 and a billionaire or something? No girl is worth your rage that way at all.

Be very cool as she is just 1 of millions of girls and when you see her next just try and isolate her and then pull her into your arms almost in a bored fashion.

The more indifferent I am the more they seem to like it. They are Aliens!
Author:  HeavyRota8tion [ Sat Oct 13, 2012 7:41 pm ]
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This girl seriously pissed me off with what she did, still it doesn't mean I don't want to bang her. I'm not sure if I should just pretend nothing happened or if I should let her know that I'm pissed off so she won't do it again.
Men ACT; Women REACT. Which are you?
Author:  Don Horneone [ Sat Oct 13, 2012 8:00 pm ]
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^^^^^^^^
Author:  trick182 [ Sat Oct 13, 2012 10:15 pm ]
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Damn bro i fell into the same situation as you about 4 weeks ago except the afc was my best friend. First of all you should understand that you have oneitis like no lie. You shouldnt have felt the need to invest time in one girl because investing time is like investing feelings into her. Second, there is nothing to get angry about because it seems like you were not dating at all. She is within her rights as much as you are to be able to see other people. Third, you shouldnt react at all because its a sign of weakness. Honestly, its up to you in what u want to do. However, this girl is not right for you because what she did show her cheating side. If it were me id get my times worth by fucking her then moving on. But before u even say anything id be careful of what id say because once you tell her off or if you tell her something mean, you better stick with it. If you tell her your done with her then theres no turning back. Its moments like this that i lose faith in women but there are good ones out there, we just got to keep going and hopefully youll land one.

Good luck bro.
Author:  SoFly [ Sun Oct 14, 2012 3:08 pm ]
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Fuck her, then dump her the harshest way you know. That will make a mark.
Author:  kasabi [ Sun Oct 14, 2012 3:56 pm ]
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Get your life in order. If you're getting that angry over a chick (not your wife) making out with some random dude, I wonder how you are able to keep yourself fed and clothed. What happens if you miss your school bus? Does your mouth foam?

And get out of the habit of calling people who actually hook up with girls AFC's. If a guy's got his finger up your girl's twat and her tongue is stuck down his throat, he is by definition, a pua. The guy who's complaining and bitchin' about it to anonymous people on the internet is the AFC.
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