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| Author: | bundy [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:10 am ] |
| Post subject: | is this an IOI? |
i usually sit somewhere behind this chick in class, usually not close, like a few seats back and a row or two over. often when i get called on to speak in class she fully turns around and stares at me while im talking....but turns back around before i can make eye contact because im addressing the class. i dont think ive noticed her doing this with other people, thoughts? seems like it could be one to me |
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| Author: | Ravengage [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 6:28 am ] |
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If she doesn't do it with other people and only with you then I guess so, but it's kind of vague. A girl in a group looking at you while you're speaking to the group is kind of just general human politeness. Although every time I see one of these "Is she into me" questions I always think the same thing: "go for it, find out". Be honest with yourself man, you'll never KNOW for 100% sure that she's into you. You just want some assurance because you're afraid of rejection, but if you really like her and are interested then go for it anyway. You've already DHVed in class and you have a ready and waiting conversation starter with each class. |
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| Author: | pumpington [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 11:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: is this an IOI? |
Quote: i usually sit somewhere behind this chick in class, usually not close, like a few seats back and a row or two over. often when i get called on to speak in class she fully turns around and stares at me while im talking....but turns back around before i can make eye contact because im addressing the class. i dont think ive noticed her doing this with other people, thoughts? seems like it could be one to me
notalk to this girl, don't be passive, go meet her and speak with her, if you like her, figure out what she likes, and invite her out to do something that the both of you can enjoy compliance > assumption + guess work |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 2:18 pm ] |
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If being a pua is about opening sets who may not have any interest in you, then making them intersted, why in the world would it matter if a girl isn't interested in you? Remember, a yes is a green light. A maybe is a greenlight. And a no is a yellow. This is such an AFC thread, no offense. But we see this all the time. It's like the OP knows this girl likes him and he just needs a bunch of validation to help him get the balls to open her. Or worse, he's looking for reasons to not have to approach her so he can feel better about being single and alone. |
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| Author: | TheStranger [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 3:23 pm ] |
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Let's briefly define IOI. IOI = Indicator of Interest. Key word - INDICATOR. Not Confirmation of Interest, but Indicator of Interest. The fact that you're even on these forums asking us if she gave you an IOI, PROVES it's an IOI. If you thought nothing of it, you wouldn't have come to the forum and posted. Don't overanalyze things bro, if there's the slightest inkling in your mind that a girl might be attracted to you, MAKE your move! You have nothing to lose if she turns out to not be attracted, and everything to gain if she is. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 3:56 pm ] |
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Quote: Let's briefly define IOI. IOI = Indicator of Interest. Key word - INDICATOR. Not Confirmation of Interest, but Indicator of Interest.
Good reply Stranger. The single biggest cock blocker is OVER-THINKING!
The fact that you're even on these forums asking us if she gave you an IOI, PROVES it's an IOI. If you thought nothing of it, you wouldn't have come to the forum and posted. Don't overanalyze things bro, if there's the slightest inkling in your mind that a girl might be attracted to you, MAKE your move! You have nothing to lose if she turns out to not be attracted, and everything to gain if she is. |
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| Author: | bundy [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 4:14 pm ] |
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thanks for the responses guys, i guess i was kind of being a pussy about it haha, i will remedy that today after class |
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