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| Author: | TheStranger [ Thu Oct 11, 2012 8:59 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Go out night-gaming alone? |
I've done it a couple of times now, and what I really like about it is that it pushes me out of my comfort zone and forces me to do things that I don't usually do (forces me to grow a pair, basically). For example, last time I sarged alone, I approached this really hot girl and just started talking to her (after getting a very unsure IOI from her, but still) she was being friendly towards me, and laughing at everything I said, but it didn't seem right and I felt like I wasn't going anywhere or building any rapport, and eventually I decided to bail. But I'm really glad I did it, it is something that I can honestly say I have NEVER done before, I ALWAYS used to expect girls to approach ME. However, my issue with sarging alone is that I feel like people can tell I'm on my own, for some reason, and this is an obvious DLV. As well as this, I tend to bump into people I know at the club (I'm a university student) and part of me gets slightly concerned that they think I'm out on my own (kind of silly, but that's the way I feel). For example, last time I sarged alone, I decided to bail and go home a good 40 minutes before the club closed because I felt that too many people (as well as people I know) saw me too many times on my own, and may have eventually come to the conclusion that i was out on my own. It's also ironic, as to counter this risk of DLV'ing myself to girls in the club, I spoke to, and spent time with quite a few random guys at the club, so that girls who were watching would assume that I was out with a few people. However, this plan didn't sustain for the whole night for obvious reasons, which is why I decided to bail 40 minutes before closing time. So my question is, what do you guys think about clubbing alone, and how would you approach the situation (put yourself in my shoes, you're going out alone to sarge - what would you do). Thanks |
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| Author: | HardToKill [ Thu Oct 11, 2012 9:03 pm ] |
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I always prefer having a wingman. Never feel comfortable alone. I mean, I've done it before - and bumped into friends and girls I know, but I've then spent the rest of the night with them, and so it still doesn't really count. Think you're right about the DLVing and stuff. People can tell straight away. |
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| Author: | wingintyme [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 7:22 am ] |
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I've been in the game about 12 years and done it both ways. Right now I'm currently flying solo but looking for a good wing. Each way has it's advantages. When I fly solo, I want to spend the least amount of time possible by myself unless in a real large and crowded place. The people you know who see you aren't going to think any thing of it as long as they like you. They are too concerned with their own lives, or they should be. If they are that concerned about you being alone, they are losers anyway. You can sort of flip the "alone" stigma on it's head and think of it this way. If a guy is good at going in to a bar alone, and chatting up hot women, or men who appear to have some decent social value, and just generally making some new friends, that's pretty impressive. And remember, people don't assume b/c you are alone that you don't have friends. They may think, your friends didn't want to get out that night, or your friends don't do clubbing, or you are flying solo for a reason, etc |
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| Author: | 0uch [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 9:41 am ] |
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Personally, I like having wing much better. It's weird going out solo. I like to top that and have a place I go to regular basis on and get to know the worker. Is always nice to bring dates to these places and running into other regulars. |
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| Author: | Max_Power101 [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 11:01 am ] |
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Having a good wing is hugely better, you can bounce off him and show all sorts of positive energy which everyone can see. But saying that solo can work, esp if you know people in your town. |
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| Author: | Peterpack [ Sun Aug 11, 2013 10:49 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Go out night-gaming alone? |
Going out alone in a foreign city is awesome. No one knows you, you can go nuts But it can be awkward in your home city. I love going out with this group of girls from work. They do their girlie thing together but they give me a heap of social proof and leave me to do my thing |
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| Author: | MrFrenchIs [ Sun Aug 11, 2013 11:27 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Go out night-gaming alone? |
As a rule I generally pick up alone.. Wingmen usually only hold me back.. I'm pretty outgoing though so I can see why this wouldn't suit everyone. |
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| Author: | Gabriel Angelo [ Thu Sep 12, 2013 1:41 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Go out night-gaming alone? |
I have the most fun going to nigh clubbing alone because I don't think about picking up women and only go out to have fun and dance. Work on your dance game as night club are notorious for dancing. |
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| Author: | AndreasJacobsen [ Fri Sep 13, 2013 11:42 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Go out night-gaming alone? |
For me, I like to go out with my friends. If I go out to nightclubs and bars it is to have fun, and I have fun with my friends so there is no issue there. If I want to approach women that night, I go for it. If there is an event nearby that I really want to attend but none of my friends come, then I go out alone. I prefer going out with my friends; that way the night will always be fun, even if there's nothing happening with the ladies!  - Andreas |
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| Author: | skills360 [ Fri Sep 13, 2013 3:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Go out night-gaming alone? |
I break it down in detail here: http://www.theskillsmethod.com/sarging- ... dvantages/ |
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