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Author:  jdeaux4 [ Thu Oct 11, 2012 7:44 am ]
Post subject:  Getting out of friend zone

At the beginning which was this past spring semester I wasn't afraid to make sexual advances. summer went by and I talked to her again, and up until two weeks ago (fall semester) before i got friend zoned I was afraid to make advances. I took a break from talking with her since she friend zoned me. I saw her today, and the convo went well. I know she likes me, I just waited too long to make a move. Whats the Better route to take at this point to get out. I could either text her tomorow and see if she wants to meet at the library to study together, or not text her stay distanced, and since saturday is gameday, text her friday night, "I want you at our house tomorrow for gameday... especially for the afterparty" I know I was friend zoned because I was a pussy and feared rejection for the small things like flirting/touching her. I dont know if itd be better to wait till friday since we haven't talked in a while and comeout with a statement like that, or be the guy who wants to just study together...

Author:  Max_Power101 [ Thu Oct 11, 2012 5:53 pm ]
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Simple: Meet other woman, she will notice you more.

Author:  KimPa [ Thu Oct 11, 2012 6:39 pm ]
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You need to show her new things about you. Show her that you have changed to better. In addition, you have to put in your heas that she is your fb, lover or nothing. You need to risk your friendship with her and not be afraid to lose her. Finally, find sometime when you are both alone and tell her that you like her more than just friends. Try to make it sexual too. Say you think she is sexy or you find her really attractive or hot. Make sure its sexual or else you havent done anything. Friends like each other as friends. Lovers like each other sexually. Thats why sex is a main component for two be together. Hope that helped

Author:  Crypto [ Thu Oct 11, 2012 7:59 pm ]
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You need to show her new things about you. Show her that you have changed to better. In addition, you have to put in your heas that she is your fb, lover or nothing. You need to risk your friendship with her and not be afraid to lose her. Finally, find sometime when you are both alone and tell her that you like her more than just friends. Try to make it sexual too. Say you think she is sexy or you find her really attractive or hot. Make sure its sexual or else you havent done anything. Friends like each other as friends. Lovers like each other sexually. Thats why sex is a main component for two be together. Hope that helped
Kimpa, I don't think you articulated your point well! IMHO Never tell her "I like you" "I think you're hot" or anything of the sort during the initial phase of your interactions. Instead show her through your body language and actions that you are sexually attracted to her, make her senses pick up on the signals you are sending and she will begin to feel sexual towards you as well. If she does not get aroused, then you are 99.9% out of luck getting out of the "friend zone".

Author:  KimPa [ Thu Oct 11, 2012 8:16 pm ]
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Kimpa, I don't think you articulated your point well! IMHO Never tell her "I like you" "I think you're hot" or anything of the sort during the initial phase of your interactions. Instead show her through your body language and actions that you are sexually attracted to her, make her senses pick up on the signals you are sending and she will begin to feel sexual towards you as well. If she does not get aroused, then you are 99.9% out of luck getting out of the "friend zone".
You have a very valid point there. Thinking about it again, i would show her through body language that im interested in her sexually maybe by kino. However, i have told girls who have friendzoned me before " you look so sexy" and other sexual comments and it worked well.

Author:  Beast 45 [ Fri Oct 12, 2012 5:42 pm ]
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Try this, I used it once and it was funny as hell:

"We should have sex."

"What!?"

(Pointing at random girl) "I said she looks like my ex."

I only used it on a friend I had no intentions with but hey, if you don't stick your neck out you'll never get anything.

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