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Author:  Codders1 [ Wed Oct 10, 2012 2:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Does Game work in the UK?

Hi everyone and fellow friends! I'm kind of becoming obsessed with Game as I love human behaviour and I find it so fascinating! I've been changing the way I am and trying to put all this stuff into practise. As you can tell from my post I live in the UK, south east England to be precise. I want to know how other people find gaming in the UK. It seems to me that girls are very snotty (up their own arses) in this country and the concept of speaking to a stranger is very alien to them.

Are other fellow UK gamers noticing this? I remember living in the USA wthen I was younger and people seemed to be so much more friendly and easier to talk to!

Also I am finding how horribly materialistic girls are here, they almost EXPECT men to be buying them drinks and when I say "no, I don't buy girls drinks" they seem so shocked and offended!!!! I find I'm really starting to resent women.

Sorry, lot of questions there, just wondered if any of you guys have encountered this?

Thank you all

Author:  _Ghost_ [ Wed Oct 10, 2012 2:37 pm ]
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From experience people in the USA are more likely to make small talk with strangers in their day to day lives, but to me it seemed more of a formality than anything genuine.

Going to vary a lot for each girl you talk to in whatever country. Some girls are just more open to being approached than others.

Author:  scratchthat [ Wed Oct 10, 2012 9:15 pm ]
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Ah, I wouldn't get down about it. Some girls here are materialistic, and some aren't - like anywhere I guess.

Remember, you're the prize here. Good luck :)

Author:  stevejabba [ Wed Oct 10, 2012 9:19 pm ]
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There's really no such thing as "game working", "game" is really maximising your personal potential and conveying universally attractive masculine qualities. Women respond to that wherever the hell they live.

The issue in the UK is the lack of hot girls with comparison to other countries, though that is no excuse really. London is your best bet

Author:  BITmixit [ Thu Oct 11, 2012 11:15 am ]
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I live in the UK, brighton area. English girls do seem to have a "I'm a girl, every guy in this club wants to fuck me" sort of mentality but that just makes the game either easier.

There is a VERY simple reason why UK girls are so up their arses and expect guys to do shitloads for them BECAUSE ENGLISH GUYS FUCKING DO IT. The amount of guys that I know that are english and do the following things:

A) They're needy.
B) They cry/get noticeably upset if a girl fucks them over.
C) They give girls way too much attention.
D) The english LAD culture has made girls out to be some form of "award"

If you constantly act like this three things will happen:

1) You will not end up with the girl you want.
2) You will end up some crazy girl who will get pregnant as soon as you look at another girl (has happened to 3 mates of mine)
3) You will get used for attention and that is all.

Personally I just use it against the girls. Most girls I know often complain that the guys they are talking to are needy/clingy always requesting texts and such. This isn't a challenge for the girls so all you have to do is present them a challenge.

Also the english "Buy me a drink" from a girl is a "Look at this male buy me a drink girls, how hot am i" brag to her friends. Use the

"haha I'm not a sexist, obviously you are. Wash my dishes and make me a sandwich and I'l get a drink"

She'll get all "fake annoyed" mixed with flirting. I usually get

Her: Oh commmmmmmmeeeeee ooooonnnnn, I'l dance with you. I'm an amazing dancer, so sexy too.

Me: I'm better, find me later. If your good I'l get you a drink.

Then just walk off. British girls love this sort shit because TOO MANY english guys are constantly jumping all over them begging for their attention.

My main advise for gaming girls in the UK clubbing scene is this: GO OUT TO HAVE FUN, DO NOT AWKWARDLY STAND NEAR GIRLS AND LOOK LIKE YOU WANT TO PULL. JUST GO OUT AND HAVE SOME FUN. BE CHEEKY, NEGGY AND JOKEY WITH THE GIRLS INSTEAD OF CREEPY AND WEIRD.

Author:  100w [ Thu Oct 11, 2012 11:35 am ]
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Quote:
I live in the UK, brighton area. English girls do seem to have a "I'm a girl, every guy in this club wants to fuck me" sort of mentality but that just makes the game either easier.

There is a VERY simple reason why UK girls are so up their arses and expect guys to do shitloads for them BECAUSE ENGLISH GUYS FUCKING DO IT. The amount of guys that I know that are english and do the following things:

A) They're needy.
B) They cry/get noticeably upset if a girl fucks them over.
C) They give girls way too much attention.
D) The english LAD culture has made girls out to be some form of "award"

If you constantly act like this three things will happen:

1) You will not end up with the girl you want.
2) You will end up some crazy girl who will get pregnant as soon as you look at another girl (has happened to 3 mates of mine)
3) You will get used for attention and that is all.

Personally I just use it against the girls. Most girls I know often complain that the guys they are talking to are needy/clingy always requesting texts and such. This isn't a challenge for the girls so all you have to do is present them a challenge.

Also the english "Buy me a drink" from a girl is a "Look at this male buy me a drink girls, how hot am i" brag to her friends. Use the

"haha I'm not a sexist, obviously you are. Wash my dishes and make me a sandwich and I'l get a drink"

She'll get all "fake annoyed" mixed with flirting. I usually get

Her: Oh commmmmmmmeeeeee ooooonnnnn, I'l dance with you. I'm an amazing dancer, so sexy too.

Me: I'm better, find me later. If your good I'l get you a drink.

Then just walk off. British girls love this sort shit because TOO MANY english guys are constantly jumping all over them begging for their attention.

My main advise for gaming girls in the UK clubbing scene is this: GO OUT TO HAVE FUN, DO NOT AWKWARDLY STAND NEAR GIRLS AND LOOK LIKE YOU WANT TO PULL. JUST GO OUT AND HAVE SOME FUN. BE CHEEKY, NEGGY AND JOKEY WITH THE GIRLS INSTEAD OF CREEPY AND WEIRD.
Amen.

Author:  Max_Power101 [ Thu Oct 11, 2012 12:56 pm ]
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All western girls are the same.

Author:  Codders1 [ Thu Oct 11, 2012 2:27 pm ]
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Hey guys!! Wow!! Thanks for all your replies!! I'm really feeling the love here today on this site!

Yes I think you are right. Men ARE a bit pathetic in this country aren't they. I thought Brighton might not be so bad as it always seems to be a bit more open minded and friendly down there. Yeah, that's what I need I think. Some real good comebacks to the proverbial "buy me a drink". Amazingly a girl did buy me and my friend a drink which was a bit crazy, it did make me feel pretty amazing though!

I think you're right too about just going out and being neggy, I keep trying the whole fake hair/extensions thing which usually results in me pulling it...quite hard I may add!!

They just seem so up themselves and unfriendly. Quote from 500 Days of Summer ; "Why do girls think they can treat men like shit and get away with it?" "Years of reinforcement my friend."

Any more tips guys I will gladly read and soak up!!

I do love the phrase "don't do what everybody else does" so I try to live by that!!

Thanks guys

Author:  sleek89 [ Thu Oct 11, 2012 3:39 pm ]
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it works in the UK although I've found approaching foreign girls when I first started out made daygame easier because they are easier to talk to, The majority of them were more beautiful than English ones too!

Author:  Don Horneone [ Thu Oct 11, 2012 4:49 pm ]
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The english LAD culture has made girls out to be some form of "award"
Your whole post was great BITmixit but could you elaborate on this bit in particular?

Author:  puaninja [ Thu Oct 11, 2012 5:14 pm ]
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You don't tell a girl "I don't buy girls drinks." Especially if she doesn't come right out and ask you to buy her one. If she does ask you to buy her one, tell her you forgot your wallet (even if she can see your wallet chain hanging out of your pants, lol). I still remember this hb9.5 who finished her cocktail and was sitting there swirling the ice around in the bottom of it waiting for me to offer to buy her another one. I just stood their quietly and watched her play with her empty drink until she finally realized she was going to have to pay for a refill herself.

Author:  HardToKill [ Thu Oct 11, 2012 5:20 pm ]
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Immense post bitmixit and pretty much spot on! The crazy-girls pregnant thing is particularly interesting as two of my friends girlfriends recently 'accidentally' got pregnant as well... :roll:

Author:  HeavyRota8tion [ Thu Oct 11, 2012 5:35 pm ]
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Quote:
I live in the UK, brighton area. English girls do seem to have a "I'm a girl, every guy in this club wants to fuck me" sort of mentality but that just makes the game either easier.

There is a VERY simple reason why UK girls are so up their arses and expect guys to do shitloads for them BECAUSE ENGLISH GUYS FUCKING DO IT. The amount of guys that I know that are english and do the following things:

A) They're needy.
B) They cry/get noticeably upset if a girl fucks them over.
C) They give girls way too much attention.
D) The english LAD culture has made girls out to be some form of "award"

If you constantly act like this three things will happen:

1) You will not end up with the girl you want.
2) You will end up some crazy girl who will get pregnant as soon as you look at another girl (has happened to 3 mates of mine)
3) You will get used for attention and that is all.

Personally I just use it against the girls. Most girls I know often complain that the guys they are talking to are needy/clingy always requesting texts and such. This isn't a challenge for the girls so all you have to do is present them a challenge.

Also the english "Buy me a drink" from a girl is a "Look at this male buy me a drink girls, how hot am i" brag to her friends. Use the

"haha I'm not a sexist, obviously you are. Wash my dishes and make me a sandwich and I'l get a drink"

She'll get all "fake annoyed" mixed with flirting. I usually get

Her: Oh commmmmmmmeeeeee ooooonnnnn, I'l dance with you. I'm an amazing dancer, so sexy too.

Me: I'm better, find me later. If your good I'l get you a drink.

Then just walk off. British girls love this sort shit because TOO MANY english guys are constantly jumping all over them begging for their attention.

My main advise for gaming girls in the UK clubbing scene is this: GO OUT TO HAVE FUN, DO NOT AWKWARDLY STAND NEAR GIRLS AND LOOK LIKE YOU WANT TO PULL. JUST GO OUT AND HAVE SOME FUN. BE CHEEKY, NEGGY AND JOKEY WITH THE GIRLS INSTEAD OF CREEPY AND WEIRD.

In other words just the same as everywhere else.

Author:  Codders1 [ Thu Oct 11, 2012 5:36 pm ]
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I'd love to meet some foreign girls, American or Californian I'm some way. I remember people being so much friendlier over there!!!

I guess what's meant by the LAD culture (yuck) is that having a "bird" is some sort of status. Much the same way they parade their stupid pit bull dogs around. So if "birds" are a status symbol/trophy then this inflates their egos and makes them think they're better than they are!!!

I just want to be deferent than the rest. For girls to think, "wow this guy is something else".

Author:  HeavyRota8tion [ Thu Oct 11, 2012 5:45 pm ]
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Quote:
I'd love to meet some foreign girls, American or Californian I'm some way. I remember people being so much friendlier over there!!!

I guess what's meant by the LAD culture (yuck) is that having a "bird" is some sort of status. Much the same way they parade their stupid pit bull dogs around. So if "birds" are a status symbol/trophy then this inflates their egos and makes them think they're better than they are!!!

I just want to be deferent than the rest. For girls to think, "wow this guy is something else".
I call this the Tourist's Paradox. Its more likely you're projecting a different mentality when you're visiting places, quite different to the attitude you project when at home.

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