Looks do matter.
They just make things easier.
The one who tell you they don't matter are those trying to sell their PUA material.

Girls care a lot about looks, and they're lying if they say they don't. If a girl goes out with a guy only based on looks than it's for eye-candy purposes — probably to make another girl jealous. Very catty. But, women also genuinely care about other qualities — like being funny or spontaneous — that should be displayed through DHVing and exposure (spending time together). Every women has dated guys that they have not been initially attracted to. But yea, girls care about looks, but it def seems like guys care more — but for different reasons.

The difference is that if you can get a girl into the right emotional state, they will find a guy attractive. If you are average looking but have a great personality with strong confidence you can pull girls that are higher on the looks chart than you.

Thats why you see the average Joe with the hot babe more often than you see the average girl with the hot dude!

Both girls and guys see with their eyes in the "immediate" but girls are more capable of seeing past the looks more quickly if the other things line up correctly.


peace...

Women are attracted to guys who they think will be able to pleasure them in bed.. and guys who look like they will be good providers (and who have good genetics to pass on to their children). In other words, when they are on the prowl, they look for indicators of confidence, physical prowess, and high status (social or otherwise).

Everything we do here is designed to use this knowledge to our benefit.

If you are lacking some of these key traits, then you should make up for it by being better than average at others. There's a reason so much of this forum is dedicated to social interactions (which can be an indicator of high social status).. it's something that's in our power to improve upon. It's the same thing for working out.. if you aren't getting results, then physical fitness is something that we can change (unlike height, for example).

Just my 2 cents.

-Wolf

Then why do they drool over Tom Cruise, Enrique Iglesias, Derek Jeter, Andre Agasse, and they dont drool over Tom Arnold, Jay Leno and Jason Alexander?

Truly hot girls have nothing to prove. Nobody doubts their hotness, therefore their status wont be lowered if she dates a buttface.

Women less than hot do have something to prove and are more careful who they date.

Getting a girl into an emotional state is not possible if she laughs at you before you can say a word.

Also getting her into an emotional state is only temporary. How will you keep her if you have nothing she wants?

Woahh you can't honestly not admit that Enrique Iglesias is drool worthy. Have you seen that boy dance? And the examples of guys that aren't that attractive probably don't even think they're attractive — they all make fun of themselves.

go to the bodybuilding website

check the post your pictures section

check the from fat to fit

no homo but theres some guys there that would be 5-6 and are now 9-10 with six packs and some without

the moral of the story is, go to gym, get muscles, get a reasonably toned body, ie dont need a 6 pack, and you will be attractive

You obviously are incapable of seeing the forest because of the trees! Point is that girls operate more from the emotional part of their brain rather than the logical part (Typically).