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Author:  Molly [ Sun Sep 30, 2012 5:40 pm ]
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How would you guys game a girl sunbathing at the beach? I feel like no one does that. I mean, whenever I'm at the beach I'm not really interested in being talked to, and I'm usually distracted (reading, listening to music, sleeping...) so it'd be hard to force an ioi. Opinions?
Author:  theurbanwarrior [ Sun Sep 30, 2012 6:10 pm ]
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Molly?
Are you a chic trying to pick up chics? lol not hating but it may just be two entirely different avenues of approaching. lmk
Author:  Molly [ Sun Sep 30, 2012 6:14 pm ]
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Are you a chic trying to pick up chics?
Female. Totally straight. I'm just curious and genuinely interested.
Author:  Body Language [ Sun Sep 30, 2012 6:24 pm ]
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I think you would have to just go for it and say hello, you're cute. Nothing wrong with obvious, direct intentions sometimes :)
Author:  theurbanwarrior [ Sun Sep 30, 2012 6:28 pm ]
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Its a lot on the body language really.
If the girl is lying on her stomach, headphones in, sunglasses on and sleeping - her body language is saying "I just wanna sunbathe, leave me alone"

If shes on her back, reading but sorta people watching, its the opposite message. At that point its no different than any other scenario i.e. a bar, the street etc. The same rules apply.

Having said that, I once gamed a 2set in Cancun who were sunbathing on their stomach but chatting not sleeping. I walked up and spread my beach mat right next to them and laid down. While I was spreading it out I said, "Alright! Sweet! you girls are awesome, thanks a lot for keeping my spot!" I didnt look at them at all while I said it and just laid down. They laughed and said "no problem! but you owe us!" lol

So anyways I replied, "you got it, drinks on me tonight at the bar!" (was an all inclusive resort lol) Anyways, you get the idea, it was on from there.
Author:  JimmyStyles [ Mon Oct 01, 2012 12:38 am ]
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Its a lot on the body language really.
If the girl is lying on her stomach, headphones in, sunglasses on and sleeping - her body language is saying "I just wanna sunbathe, leave me alone"

If shes on her back, reading but sorta people watching, its the opposite message. At that point its no different than any other scenario i.e. a bar, the street etc. The same rules apply.

Having said that, I once gamed a 2set in Cancun who were sunbathing on their stomach but chatting not sleeping. I walked up and spread my beach mat right next to them and laid down. While I was spreading it out I said, "Alright! Sweet! you girls are awesome, thanks a lot for keeping my spot!" I didnt look at them at all while I said it and just laid down. They laughed and said "no problem! but you owe us!" lol

So anyways I replied, "you got it, drinks on me tonight at the bar!" (was an all inclusive resort lol) Anyways, you get the idea, it was on from there.
I'm going on holidays (vacation) soon. I'm defs going to try this! haha
Author:  Molly [ Mon Oct 01, 2012 1:01 am ]
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Idk I'm not too sure about that consistently working. I feel like beach time is girl time unless they have it in their mind that they want to be hit on. Bitch shields go up super quick when one's in "girl time" mode. Maybe an indirect approach would be best, but like a "have you seen a volleyball that rolled this way?" or something like that, like you're looking for something. Then saying that they look fun and taking them on an instant date?
Author:  theurbanwarrior [ Mon Oct 01, 2012 2:13 am ]
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I'm going on holidays (vacation) soon. I'm defs going to try this! haha
Cheers bro, its all about attitude with that one. Its a pretty high stakes move so you have to come off like you could care less if she actually talked back to you or not. To give you some context, I just came out of an ocean swim and just wanted to plop down somewhere and rest for 10-15min - why make a few friends at the same time right?
Author:  theurbanwarrior [ Mon Oct 01, 2012 2:34 am ]
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Idk I'm not too sure about that consistently working. I feel like beach time is girl time unless they have it in their mind that they want to be hit on. Bitch shields go up super quick when one's in "girl time" mode. Maybe an indirect approach would be best, but like a "have you seen a volleyball that rolled this way?" or something like that, like you're looking for something. Then saying that they look fun and taking them on an instant date?
Nothing ever works consistently and no one ever bats a 1000. Bitch shields are unavoidable. We guys get it all the time, so its no different if its on the beach or girls night at the club, its all part of the process. Fact is, us men are awesome, phenomenal creatures .. but we cant mind read ;) lol so the only way we know if you are friendly or not is by approaching. The "girl time" spiel is the same argument when girls say they go to clubs "just to dance" lol. (Cmon, 3-4 hrs getting all pretty and dolled up but you dont want attention? yea right)

Sorry not buying it - youre on a beach wearing next to nothing, glowing with oil in the sun and just want "girl time"? haha lets be adults, girls want the attention. Its just HOW that attention is delivered.

Im a strong believer in the phrase, "Actions speak louder than words". Its not really about what you say but how you say it and the body language. With my approach earlier, I had to do/say something over the top to break them from their conversation in a cool funny way to then get them into talking to me. By engaging but not really engaging (not fully acknowledging them) I just about crept into their comfort zone.
Author:  CanuckEH [ Mon Oct 01, 2012 3:27 am ]
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Okay, you're a female so why not give us guys a hand here.

What would sway you to stop what you're doing and talk to a guy that just approached you?
Author:  Molly [ Mon Oct 01, 2012 3:45 am ]
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Okay, you're a female so why not give us guys a hand here.

What would sway you to stop what you're doing and talk to a guy that just approached you?
The reason I posted this is because I'm so unsure. I can't imagine being not creeped out by a guy that just came over and started talking to me if I was just lying on the beach wearing almost nothing. I think that even if I wanted to be approached I still wouldn't welcome it. So weird right?
Author:  JimmyStyles [ Mon Oct 01, 2012 7:45 am ]
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Idk I'm not too sure about that consistently working. I feel like beach time is girl time unless they have it in their mind that they want to be hit on. Bitch shields go up super quick when one's in "girl time" mode. Maybe an indirect approach would be best, but like a "have you seen a volleyball that rolled this way?" or something like that, like you're looking for something. Then saying that they look fun and taking them on an instant date?
Yea true :) I'm still going to try it out for fun though - I realise there's a good chance they may tell me to "fuck off" haha. But yea, a safer option would be an indirect approach.
Author:  JimmyStyles [ Mon Oct 01, 2012 7:59 am ]
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Cheers bro, its all about attitude with that one. Its a pretty high stakes move so you have to come off like you could care less if she actually talked back to you or not. To give you some context, I just came out of an ocean swim and just wanted to plop down somewhere and rest for 10-15min - why make a few friends at the same time right?
Exactly. It's called effective time management :) Instead of merely resting for 10-15, why not make a few friends at the same time? ;)
Author:  Fvckitimout [ Mon Oct 01, 2012 8:04 am ]
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Id Imagine the guy would have to let the girl know he is planning to approach while he is still far.

I realize in my approches women are more comfortable with strangers when surprises are eliminated and they keep at a distance the more compromising the situation. Also crouching could increase comfort level if the woman is laying on the ground. Never did beach approaches before since if im at the beach im with a chick enjoying my time getting my man tits slapped by the waves.
Author:  theurbanwarrior [ Mon Oct 01, 2012 4:57 pm ]
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Okay, you're a female so why not give us guys a hand here.

What would sway you to stop what you're doing and talk to a guy that just approached you?
The reason I posted this is because I'm so unsure. I can't imagine being not creeped out by a guy that just came over and started talking to me if I was just lying on the beach wearing almost nothing. I think that even if I wanted to be approached I still wouldn't welcome it. So weird right?
Yea it makes sense, its that vunerability moment and also that unknown factor, right? What has your experience been like so far? are there any beach expperiences that stand out, be it good or bad?

I can see more successful approaches being made at the boardwalk and ice cream shops but have you had or seen successful approaches happen while sunbathing?
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