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Author:  freewheelin1988 [ Sun Sep 30, 2012 2:45 am ]
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I was texting with this girl whom I've known for a few months now, we hang out in a group regularly but only have hung out one on one once. We've been getting flirty over the last couple days so when she texted me today I asked her if she wanted to go for a drink. She said she was tired but maybe another time.
How do you guys deal with this? Should I ask again another time or should I wait for her to ask me? If she was busy that would be cool but tires is a lame excuse on a Saturday night.

Author:  VietnameseProdigy [ Sun Sep 30, 2012 3:09 am ]
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op must be trolling

Author:  JimmyStyles [ Sun Sep 30, 2012 3:12 am ]
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"Tired" would have been acceptable if she had counter offered with an actual time and day - for example, "I'm too tired to go out tonight, but how about [day] at [time]."

"Another time" sounds a little reluctant.

I would wait around a week. Then send her another message asking her out for dinner or drinks. Make sure you give her around 2 days notice - it's polite and avoids the situation where she says that she has already got plans. If she comes up with another flimsy excuse and doesn't give you a specific counter offer, you should move on.

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