PUA Forum :: I love a challenge but need help now

Right, long story short , met this girl we got on really well she said she fancied me but didn't want to hurt me because I was too 'sweet' and after a few dates we kissed and said we would really miss each other.

Now she was genuine when she told me she liked me and missed me and now I'm just just trying to see if there is anyway of f-ing her. Just as a challenge.

I kinda screwed up by texting her a bit and saying I miss her and I want things to be back to the way they were. This all happened in a week so bit Ott on the texting!!....so I'm going to keep challenging myself and not give up. So what's my best move next???

We got on like a house on fire and she always used to text me. But now she won't even respond.

I left it a few days then text her saying hi, and she replied short and sweet then I got heavier and she stopped replying

Is there a text I could send or leave it a while or ......what???

Ps this is my monthly challenge for failure is not an option

Author:	ozzy089 [ Thu Sep 27, 2012 1:17 pm ]
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Right, long story short , met this girl we got on really well she said she fancied me but didn't want to hurt me because I was too 'sweet' and after a few dates we kissed and said we would really miss each other. Now she was genuine when she told me she liked me and missed me and now I'm just just trying to see if there is anyway of f-ing her. Just as a challenge. I kinda screwed up by texting her a bit and saying I miss her and I want things to be back to the way they were. This all happened in a week so bit Ott on the texting!!....so I'm going to keep challenging myself and not give up. So what's my best move next??? We got on like a house on fire and she always used to text me. But now she won't even respond. I left it a few days then text her saying hi, and she replied short and sweet then I got heavier and she stopped replying Is there a text I could send or leave it a while or ......what??? Ps this is my monthly challenge for failure is not an option

Author:	JimmyStyles [ Thu Sep 27, 2012 1:47 pm ]
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I think you probably did "screw up". It appears that you came across as needy. As a result, she doesn't seem to be interested. I can't think of a way to win her back. But then again, I'm only new to the Game. If I was you I would go out and meet some other girls. Plenty of fish in the sea.

Author:	ozzy089 [ Thu Sep 27, 2012 1:54 pm ]
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Quote: I think you probably did "screw up". It appears that you came across as needy. As a result, she doesn't seem to be interested. I can't think of a way to win her back. But then again, I'm only new to the Game. If I was you I would go out and meet some other girls. Plenty of fish in the sea. Yeah defo did screw up a bit. But it must be possible.... I'm meeting another girl next week so yeah plenty more fish etc etc. Just challenging myself. Was thinking perhaps give it a couple of weeks and then ringing outta the blue , act like I forgot about her?? It's a tough one to rescue but if anyone can think of anything please chip in Oh and just to add she said she liked me because I was the sweet underdog kinda guy she goes for ..... Bit of a Wtf moment but hey may work to my advantage

Author:	Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Sep 27, 2012 2:18 pm ]
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Quote: Right, long story short , met this girl we got on really well she said she fancied me but didn't want to hurt me because I was too 'sweet' and after a few dates we kissed and said we would really miss each other. Now she was genuine when she told me she liked me and missed me and now I'm just just trying to see if there is anyway of f-ing her. Just as a challenge. I kinda screwed up by texting her a bit and saying I miss her and I want things to be back to the way they were. This all happened in a week so bit Ott on the texting!!....so I'm going to keep challenging myself and not give up. So what's my best move next??? We got on like a house on fire and she always used to text me. But now she won't even respond. I left it a few days then text her saying hi, and she replied short and sweet then I got heavier and she stopped replying Is there a text I could send or leave it a while or ......what??? Ps this is my monthly challenge for failure is not an option FAILURE....may be your ONLY option. You did not escalate to sex quickly enough! Shortly she is going to give you the 'ole LJBF's speech, or just quit replying to anything. She is not the only girl out there waiting to fuck you! MOVE on to other options, freeze her the fuck out! While your busy text-ing all nicey crap, some other dude is taking her to pound town, that's why you get no reply...she's busy! Your challenge should be to pound 10 other girls. After a week of blowing HER off, send her "DTF?" She'll be all "OMG Ozzy that's not like you at all!?!" Then just say "I was watching a porno, and the girl reminded me of you!" Her "OMG Bla, Bla" You "Yeah, Now that's all I can think about, is you naked!" "And it's your fault for being so damn sexy!" Do not be afraid of what she MITE say, If there was any attraction at all the reaction will be positive, if not...well there wasn't any! Go bang one of those other 10! Tone it down slightly if you can't man up and go that blunt....use that frame! Time to go bold big fella

Author:	mmo73 [ Thu Sep 27, 2012 3:17 pm ]
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yes, you telegraphed too much interest. Keep your distance, don't call or text.

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Author:	ozzy089 [ Thu Sep 27, 2012 3:52 pm ]
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Quote: yes, you telegraphed too much interest. Keep your distance, don't call or text. Big time, I'm a sucker for that.... Give it a week? Two?

Author:	Pickwick [ Thu Sep 27, 2012 3:59 pm ]
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Listen to Heywood. You're not gonna stimulate any progress from doing the same thing in a week or two. I would just plainly recommend moving on.

Author:	mmo73 [ Thu Sep 27, 2012 4:02 pm ]
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What pickwick said.... but there is one more thing you can do....let her see you in a pre-selected mode. That could turn her thoughts around.

Author:	ozzy089 [ Thu Sep 27, 2012 4:29 pm ]
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Quote: What pickwick said.... but there is one more thing you can do....let her see you in a pre-selected mode. That could turn her thoughts around. What's a pre selected mode?

Author:	HeavyRota8tion [ Thu Sep 27, 2012 5:22 pm ]
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She senses you're likely only out for sex (she maybe looking for a relationship), OR you're being incongruent/inauthentic by going from sweet guy to sexual guy with the flick of a switch (in short, you seem schizo).

Author:	Crypto [ Thu Sep 27, 2012 6:12 pm ]
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Heywood is right on the money here! Drop her and move on...If in a few (6-8 months) you want to try again, then approach her like a new person. Peace...

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