She was hinting to me that she needed a place to sleep at the town i live in. Told her why etc. And eventually offered here to sleep at my place, told her she could sleep in my other room.

She told me that was cool, and when she arrived at my place, she was hinting she wanted to sleep with me in my bed. I told her that was ok..

But I had told myself already that I shouldn't make a move on her, because I want to keep her as my friend. So I didn't escalate fysically, and we talked about the people we were dating. Then we went to sleep, and the whole night she cuddled and slept against me.

The problem now is that I started to feel more than friends.. But I don't really know what to do. I appreciate that she is chasing that "gay" guy, but somehow my feelings tell me to start to tell her I got feelings again for her.

How can I do this without actually coming of as a needy little bitch? (When we were dating before, and I had to move out of town, she told me it would have been better to stay friends anyway). As she did also not want to lose me as friend.

On the other side, I do want a relationship with her, but I also don't want to lose her as my friend..

I appreciate youre advices.

PositiveVibe

So just invite her again, ignore what she says about that guy, and fuck her?

Yes, listen politely, subtly change the subject, get a sexual vibe with lots of kino going!

You have already built comfort, ask her if other girls would think your a good kisser, then kiss HER! Then move forward...pull back a little, then rinse repeat!

Ok good idea! Already thought of an excuse to make her sleep over again. Last time she was hinting me to sleep over at my place, she wanted to go do sports with me in the morning at 6. But the club we are both still member of is like 80 miles away from her and only 10 miles for me.

I'll just ask her to do this again next week, so if I start to make our conversations a little more sexual, she will not be in shock and flip out if I start to escalate on her? And will she actually want to risk the comfort she has with me, by sleeping with me?

Er well maybe not quite so direct as Heywood but he is used to Florida Blonds and they only respect hard and hardest

Er well maybe not quite so direct as Heywood but he is used to Florida Blonds and they only respect hard and hardest

Simply advice works best all round.

Get her to your place, food, drinks, tease, kino, fuck.

Ball game over.

Any girl who comes to my place let alone in bed with me will get fucked 100% of the time.

That's why they come over in the first place but as men we often miss the most simple and obvious signs. They really do know what they are doing.