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Author:  gluey [ Wed Sep 26, 2012 12:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Hot to potentially cold? Not sure if I've read the IoIs

Hey guys,

So after breaking up with my girlfriend of three years I decided I need to get out there and mess around. (Obligatory Intro)

So I've been getting good results and what not and I'm confident with my game when in person, however interpreting texts, facebook messages etc throws me off. Basically, there's this girl who I was initially only interested in as she's a HB and had recently broken up with her boyfriend (easy target).

I hadn't spoken to this girl for several years (when she was going out with a mate) and when she liked a naked baby photo of myself on the beach with the caption "line up ladies" I figured "Game on".

So I started talking on facebook, asked how things were, she asked how my life was (for the record, this year has been the worst of my life). I invited her to a party I was having and she asked for my number, I responded with "Woah, That escalated quickly" answered with "Hahahaha
Remember i am single nd ready to mingle now!! No wasting time ;P"

She then sent me a text with just a :D , to which I replied
"Some would consider that a booty call text, lucky I think you're innocent"
"Hahaha, Well maybe you shouldn't be so quick to judge ;)"

so I shot back a :D implying a booty call... maybe a bit too intellectual but I didn't get a reply.

She rocks up to my party with a gift for me, and she's rocking. She knows no-one there so I try and introduce her while I go and pivot off others.

She then leaves to head to a gig in the city, the same place we plan on going later in the night so I'm not worried. My friends and I arrive in the city, with no sight of her. She's gone home with her friends after the gig and hasn't stayed out.. incredibly apologetic she insists on another catch up soon.

Insert lack of conversation, and facebook chat.

She seems to have gone cold. Unsure of suitable freeze out methods over facebook and electronic means I'm left in a bit of a rut?

Not sure If this is overly informative but any help for this AFC would be great.

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Sep 26, 2012 1:08 pm ]
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Fuck facebook, you have her number, wait a day or two, and re-open like it's all brand new. Send a Cocky/Funny sms or text. Roll from there.

Do not mention the "flake out"

Author:  Crypto [ Wed Sep 26, 2012 2:35 pm ]
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I agree with Heywood. Once you have their number don't do a lot of Facebook chatting. Facebook can be used to DHV yourself a little every now and then with status updates and random exciting pictures, but don't spend a lot of time on there as it makes you appear to not have a life.

With this girl, just act as if her not being there does not phase you. Continue to try and re-open her with a C&F text message one morning

Peace

Author:  HeavyRota8tion [ Wed Sep 26, 2012 3:57 pm ]
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online>texting>phone calls (do this early, rather than later - most women sense you're too scared/intimidated to call if wait too long - vibe for calling is very diff than text) > face-to-face

Once you have her phone number the progression should be pretty quick from texting>phone convo>date, a few days at most.

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Sep 26, 2012 4:19 pm ]
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Once you have her phone number the progression should be pretty quick from texting>phone convo>date, a few days at most.
Nailed it Heavy!

Today's nanotechnology has blown out the old "wait 3 days" bullshit, she'll forget who the hell you even were by then! That shit may have worked for the "The Fonz" back in the day, besides have you seen Henry Winkler in a while? Poor guy couldn't get laid in a pussy storm!

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