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| Author: | Mavin [ Mon Sep 24, 2012 8:12 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Regaining My Best Female Friend |
How is everybody doing? Im posting here today for some advice about a very good female friend of mine which I feel am slowly drifting apart from. We got close whilst she was going out with one of my friends, but we got really close after that relationship ended. We would text/chat everyday, and arrange nights out every friday and saturday together. But one late night, after a night out, she text me saying how she wanted to kiss me. I thought it hadnt changed anything because we discussed it and acted normal. But then we both had holidays away (not together and different times) and did briefly chat whilst away. Every week, we seem to be chatting less. We both really want this friendship to stay at this level. Maybe in the future it could escalate to something more (which we have both agreed could happen) but i cant have this without her being a close friend. Im looking for advice in how to rekindle this friendship. Thanks |
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| Author: | Chris2k10 [ Mon Sep 24, 2012 8:28 pm ] |
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I don't see why you just want to be friends with her. She was already thinking about being sexual with you and going onto something more..out of the friend zone. But if you want..just talk. All you need to be a friend is talk talk talk. Talk about that sad song you heard on the radio, talk about how it totally reminds you of this other totally sad movie, and you two will be good friends. |
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| Author: | Mavin [ Mon Sep 24, 2012 8:55 pm ] |
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Thanks Chris, well she was not long out of her relationship at the time, and was wanting to be single for the time being. I was thinking of suggesting doing something with her over the weekend coming. i think spending time with her in person would help, and see if this will be more than just being friends. |
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| Author: | Hunter_Foxe [ Mon Sep 24, 2012 10:50 pm ] |
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You obviously want more than friendship. Put it this way, if she had the exact same personality, but she was fat and ugly, would you really care about this situation in the same way? And would you be posting it as a question on a pickup forum? You have to be prepared to lose her as a friend or you will get permanently friend-zoned. |
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| Author: | gtdave [ Mon Sep 24, 2012 11:13 pm ] |
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I'd phone her and ask her to hang out this weekend! Plan lots of fun stuff to do together! While on the phone I'd just be honest and tell her what you told us. She obviously means a lot to you even as just a friend. Sometimes the most alpha thing to do is just to clearly state your intentions/concerns and see where the cards fall! Before you phone I'd do some hard internal looking to see what you actually want from this woman. Know what you want and be decisive! This will eliminate mixed signals! |
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