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| Author: | dmallsick [ Mon Sep 24, 2012 6:38 pm ] |
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I'm 6'2'' 200lbs and have a east-european criminal type face, and girls don't like me. I tried eye contact as in "60 years of challenge" and it's real bad, two seconds and they just look away. And in the book it was said that it's not a good idea to smile, is it true maybe I should try? But i'm afraid to try, what if they think that I want to rape and kill them. |
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| Author: | Chris2k10 [ Mon Sep 24, 2012 6:46 pm ] |
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They're scared of you in a good way, they're intimidated. Other guys have to smile less to look more alpha/masculine. You need to do the opposite. Escalate SLOWER and smile more. Be humble so she can get comfortable with you. |
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| Author: | dmallsick [ Mon Sep 24, 2012 8:28 pm ] |
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You think so? I doubt it is possible to be scared in a good way and wouldn't they show that in some way if they were. |
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| Author: | Chris2k10 [ Mon Sep 24, 2012 8:31 pm ] |
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Quote: You think so? I doubt it is possible to be scared in a good way and wouldn't they show that in some way if they were.
They would show it...but only after you make them comfortable around you. Girls are intimidated by big, tough-looking, rugged, masculine, musty-smelling men. All you need to do is to show that you're a sensitive thug and her dream will come true.
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| Author: | AznPersuasion [ Mon Sep 24, 2012 8:44 pm ] |
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Chris is right. Intimidation is an upper hand of sorts. You don't have to prove your masculinity to anyone because you are the cream of the crop as far as physical presence goes. You're the type of dude who no one can ignore. Even if they've only seen you around, people will remember you (and you don't even have to open your mouth). I'm assuming you're a pleasant fellow and can hold a normal conversation. The easiest way to introduce yourself is with a handshake and saying, "Hi, I'm _____." Then you just take it from there. It would be unwise to let your louder personality quirks to show early on if they're already acting like you are too much for them. Ease into it and let them gain comfort around you. But honestly, unless she's a complete and utter bitch, no woman will shut down a man before he's even tried to say hello, so go for it. Smile with your eyes, be confident, shake some hands. Make some friends. Take my advice lightly, as I've never been in your shoes. I am 5' 3" and 150 lbs. Being slight in size makes my loud personality a very useful tool. You work with what you've got! |
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| Author: | Hunter_Foxe [ Mon Sep 24, 2012 10:56 pm ] |
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People misinterpret eye signals a lot. If a girl stares at you and holds your gaze for 3 or 4 seconds then looks DOWN, this is a hard-wired signal of submission (NOT disinterest), which means she is simultaneously both scared of you and strangely attracted to your "cavemanity" and is telling you that if you come over to seduce her, she won't resist. Female chimpanzees often lie back with their legs open when they feel physically threatened by a big male, in an effort to calm him down. If she shows she is submissive from the start, then you don't need to feel the guilt of having a rapist complex. Work with what you've got and smiling will actually show you're NOT a rapist, not the other way round. If you really do look that mean, then joke about it and pretend you really are a serial killing rapist, girls love inappropriate humour. If you can make fun of yourself in a confident manner, they won't see you as a threat but as a protector. Use what you've got, girls love a chunky guy to take care of them. |
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| Author: | Crypto [ Tue Sep 25, 2012 8:13 pm ] |
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Quote: You think so? I doubt it is possible to be scared in a good way and wouldn't they show that in some way if they were.
"In the wild when a male and female tiger meet, the female is automatically more submissive to the male. This happens instinctively, we as humans have that same insitinct. You walk into a room with someone of authority "Police Officer" you will automatically be more submissive to him based on his position, you don't think it, it just happens. The same with these girls, if they percieve you as alpha, they will automatically become submissive "Looking away is a submissive behavior", the question is, do you catch them sneaking a look at you every so often? If so, they are probably attracted.Peace... |
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| Author: | puaninja [ Tue Sep 25, 2012 8:29 pm ] |
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It happens to me a lot, mainly because I'm really tall. But also when I'm at places where I'm the only remotely decent looking one there or the only dude there. Girls will be walking through the mall or whatever, laughing and joking and oblivious to the families and old couples walking by, then they see me and they just get real quiet, hands to their sides and kind of look down or avert their eyes. And it's not because they think I'm creepy and are trying to avoid me. It's because they don't feel comfortable acting confident in front of a potential mate they might be attracted to. Confident women will at least stare ahead right past my gaze as though I'm not even there. Maybe they like me, maybe they don't. But younger women or those who are definately attracted will avert their eyes and fold in a bit. |
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| Author: | dmallsick [ Thu Oct 04, 2012 7:56 am ] |
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I don't think they secretly like me, I think they genuinely don't like me or are scared. Because not only women do that, but men also sometimes, walk to the side on the street when I walk towards and stuff like that. |
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| Author: | Fvckitimout [ Thu Oct 04, 2012 8:20 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: girls scared of me. |
Quote: I'm 6'2'' 200lbs and have a east-european criminal type face
Just to remind you its Halloween, it could work for you. All you need now is a bloody shirt and knife props.Try wearing glasses. Im tall too 6 feet 200 lbs with lots of muscle. Can be pretty intimidating. Glasses seem to balance out the primal manliness of guys like us. Good thing is underneath she'll be wet. Most women are megalomaniacs when it comes to guys. Its like seeing beast from xmen with glasses. It makes you feel like he wont rip your neck off, but underneath you know hes a badass muthafucka. P.s. Best self description quote ever |
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