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Author:  tostrong [ Mon Sep 24, 2012 3:53 pm ]
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My girlfriend is in college, she has down time in between classes and wants to go to her friend house to hang out, nap, do home work ect. because her friend lives close to the university. The only problem is this girl lives with 4 dudes, one of which I know likes my gf and has hit on her on many times! Also her friend is a not a great influence, she sleeps around a lot and she a party animal!

So without coming of afc how do I handle this? I wouldn't be comfortable with it if it was one guy let alone 4, and knowing that the one really likes her worries me. Also she a good looking girl! hb 9 or 10 so its safe to say that all 4 of them would sleep with her or at least try.

In my eyes she is putting her self in a very bad situation! and setting out relationship up to fail? what are you opinions? how should I handle this?
Author:  puaninja [ Mon Sep 24, 2012 4:26 pm ]
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If you say shes a hb9 or 10, then she's probably an 8. You'd know if your own gf was a perfect 10!

But this doesn't sound like a good situation. Imagine being one of those single dudes and your one female roommate is like "Oh, btw, my HAWT friend is going to be coming over all the time to chill..." You'd be like "FUCK YEA!"

What I would do is call out the fact that all these dudes will be hitting on her, to pre-cock block them, and also to make her feel bad for liking them if she succumbs to their advances. I'd make her promise you that you can trust her, so she's very aware that you know whats going on over there.
Author:  Melodical [ Mon Sep 24, 2012 4:40 pm ]
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Get a friend of yours to tell another one of your girlfriends friends that the guys are taking bets on whose going to fuck her first. They've all put $50 in the pot and first one to fuck her get's all the money and the whole college is waiting to see who the winner is.

Do you think your GF will even speak to them when she hears that? The guys have just become the least likely guys in the entire college to sleep with her lol.
Author:  MrBreeze [ Mon Sep 24, 2012 4:56 pm ]
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Get a friend of yours to tell another one of your girlfriends friends that the guys are taking bets on whose going to fuck her first. They've all put $50 in the pot and first one to fuck her get's all the money and the whole college is waiting to see who the winner is.

Do you think your GF will even speak to them when she hears that? The guys have just become the least likely guys in the entire college to sleep with her lol.

haha, love it. I had a bet years ago with a coworker that wouldnt shut his mouth... Most kiss or above in two weeks... A week into it a was about to hook up with a different coworkers roomie. All was good until she turned her head at the kiss and was like I know about the bet. I wasted all that night and another.... Never got a kiss. Still won the bet tho. :-)

I would try this, no woman wants to be part of a bet.
Author:  tostrong [ Mon Sep 24, 2012 6:36 pm ]
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I think Im going to say to her.

"Do you think that is a good idea? do you not think that you are putting your self in a bad situation?"

If she doesn't see that its a problem then I am going to say

"Alright your a big girl you can make your own decisions, I am not comfortable with the fact that there will be four guys trying to sleep with you, and I am a bit disappointed at the fact that you would put your self in that kind of situation, but I trust you and you are free to do what you choose".
Author:  Chris2k10 [ Mon Sep 24, 2012 7:23 pm ]
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Expect anything. It's college bro. The day you hear that she sucked a young lad off shouldn't shock you. Just don't give a fuck about what she does with her life. If she tells you she "accidentally" fucked, just be like, "That's hot..". Even if you know she fucked and she comes to see you, keep your mouth shut and fuck her now. Carpe diem. Live in the present, my friend.
Author:  MrBreeze [ Mon Sep 24, 2012 7:48 pm ]
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I think Im going to say to her.

"Do you think that is a good idea? do you not think that you are putting your self in a bad situation?"

If she doesn't see that its a problem then I am going to say

"Alright your a big girl you can make your own decisions, I am not comfortable with the fact that there will be four guys trying to sleep with you, and I am a bit disappointed at the fact that you would put your self in that kind of situation, but I trust you and you are free to do what you choose".
Of all the options on this thread this might be the worse... Let us know how it works!
Author:  dark one [ Mon Sep 24, 2012 10:20 pm ]
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Expect anything. It's college bro. The day you hear that she sucked a young lad off shouldn't shock you. Just don't give a fuck about what she does with her life. If she tells you she "accidentally" fucked, just be like, "That's hot..". Even if you know she fucked and she comes to see you, keep your mouth shut and fuck her now. Carpe diem. Live in the present, my friend.
No offense man but this is terrible advice! College or not when two people are in a monogamous relationship there should be no reason too cheat...it selfish. Does it happen? all the time but it doesn't make it normal or ok lol

If you gf is going to put he self in that kind of situation you should question how important your relationship really is to her? If its important she will understand why you are uncomfortable with her hanging out with guys who want to fuck her....should be common sens lol

Imagine if the roles were revered "Hey hun, Im going to hang out daily with a house full of horny chick who want to sleep with me"....you gf would prob loose her shit! lol
Author:  MrBreeze [ Mon Sep 24, 2012 11:07 pm ]
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Expect anything. It's college bro. The day you hear that she sucked a young lad off shouldn't shock you. Just don't give a fuck about what she does with her life. If she tells you she "accidentally" fucked, just be like, "That's hot..". Even if you know she fucked and she comes to see you, keep your mouth shut and fuck her now. Carpe diem. Live in the present, my friend.
No offense man but this is terrible advice! College or not when two people are in a monogamous relationship there should be no reason too cheat...it selfish. Does it happen? all the time but it doesn't make it normal or ok lol

If you gf is going to put he self in that kind of situation you should question how important your relationship really is to her? If its important she will understand why you are uncomfortable with her hanging out with guys who want to fuck her....should be common sens lol

Imagine if the roles were revered "Hey hun, Im going to hang out daily with a house full of horny chick who want to sleep with me"....you gf would prob loose her shit! lol
I think maybe chris is being a realist... If youre in college and dating a HB8-10 you should expect the I "accidentally" fucked some guy because I put myself in a bad situation. Everyone is young and running on instant stimulation, red bull, and out of control hormones. Shit is going to happen, sounds like it already is....
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I think Im going to say to her.

"Do you think that is a good idea? do you not think that you are putting your self in a bad situation?"

If she doesn't see that its a problem then I am going to say

"Alright your a big girl you can make your own decisions, I am not comfortable with the fact that there will be four guys trying to sleep with you, and I am a bit disappointed at the fact that you would put your self in that kind of situation, but I trust you and you are free to do what you choose".
The reason this is not useful is because hes using rational thinking with a completely irrational being. and even giving permission with "you are free to do what you choose" In my experience you should never stick your hand in the fire if youre afraid of getting burned. Most women will take this and run with it... and not towards you.
Author:  tostrong [ Mon Sep 24, 2012 11:35 pm ]
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Expect anything. It's college bro. The day you hear that she sucked a young lad off shouldn't shock you. Just don't give a fuck about what she does with her life. If she tells you she "accidentally" fucked, just be like, "That's hot..". Even if you know she fucked and she comes to see you, keep your mouth shut and fuck her now. Carpe diem. Live in the present, my friend.
No offense man but this is terrible advice! College or not when two people are in a monogamous relationship there should be no reason too cheat...it selfish. Does it happen? all the time but it doesn't make it normal or ok lol

If you gf is going to put he self in that kind of situation you should question how important your relationship really is to her? If its important she will understand why you are uncomfortable with her hanging out with guys who want to fuck her....should be common sens lol

Imagine if the roles were revered "Hey hun, Im going to hang out daily with a house full of horny chick who want to sleep with me"....you gf would prob loose her shit! lol
I think maybe chris is being a realist... If youre in college and dating a HB8-10 you should expect the I "accidentally" fucked some guy because I put myself in a bad situation. Everyone is young and running on instant stimulation, red bull, and out of control hormones. Shit is going to happen, sounds like it already is....
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I think Im going to say to her.

"Do you think that is a good idea? do you not think that you are putting your self in a bad situation?"

If she doesn't see that its a problem then I am going to say

"Alright your a big girl you can make your own decisions, I am not comfortable with the fact that there will be four guys trying to sleep with you, and I am a bit disappointed at the fact that you would put your self in that kind of situation, but I trust you and you are free to do what you choose".
The reason this is not useful is because hes using rational thinking with a completely irrational being. and even giving permission with "you are free to do what you choose" In my experience you should never stick your hand in the fire if youre afraid of getting burned. Most women will take this and run with it... and not towards you.
Great advice! so what should I say to her???? should I strait up say to her no, and tell her if she is going to put her self in those kinds of situations then im gone?

How should I handle this?
Author:  MrBreeze [ Mon Sep 24, 2012 11:56 pm ]
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How should I handle this?
Be an attractive man of desire... Shes less likely to cheat if shes into you. But also keep in mind what chris was saying about shit happening. Dont ever act needy... like you were a few posts ago. Needy will drive her into others arms. Dont challenge her. Let her know how youre desired by other woman. Always be gaming...

Cock blocking via a friend and the bet idea is legal as long as you can stay out of it!
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