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Author:  Wilheim [ Sat Sep 22, 2012 6:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Keeping it casual.
I don't like fucking with girls emotions and always try to leave things simple.

However I found myself in a situation where I have gone home with a friend of a friend (did not sleep with her), who i will continue to see even if its just friendly during the day. I only really want to have sex with her and nothing more, but she seems already very involved (looking to tie me down).

Question being how do I sleep with her without leading her on and potentially making things difficult in the future.

Wilheim

As surplus info, she seems very concerned about me being a man whore... , and she used to be very religious so i think i would only be her second.
Author:  HeavyRota8tion [ Sat Sep 22, 2012 6:11 pm ]
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Set parameters to the time you spend together. Chilling out days is often courting behavior, or a couple like thing to do. Make a point of spending nights together, the later the better (and don't spend endless amounts of time with her), don't be her therapist allowing her to confide endlessly to you, that's what her girlfriends are for. Initiate and hold the sexual frame, keeping physicality high.

In short think of all the things a guy does to court a woman, and be mindful to not engage in any of that behavior or anything that can be construed as that kind of behavior. I wouldn't be taking her places either, instead spend the bulk of your time at yours or her place. Keep things light, funny, and sexually charged. Take opportunities to misinterpret what she's saying (be deadpan about it, don't go "JUST KIDDING" if you see a funny look on he face) as something sexual as a way of testing your boundaries with her as well as elevating sexual tension.
Author:  Wilheim [ Sat Sep 22, 2012 6:34 pm ]
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Part of the reason for my concern is that we had quite a deep chat before we started making out... that whole confiding stuff already happened, but I will bear that in mind not to be the shoulder to cry on.

Do you think it is worth out right stating that nothing else will happen. I did that once before and the next week... guilt free sex.
Author:  Sombre [ Sat Sep 22, 2012 7:45 pm ]
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If you care about her feelings : make things clear about yourself and your expectations. Tell her you like enjoying your time and are not a one-girl man, at least whe will have the information. Of course, chances are it will not work :-) She will believe she is the one that can change you (extra chances it will happen as she's religious), so it will probably be somewhat messy to handle.

Honestly, do you believe that she could have casual sex with you without being hurt afterwards ? I dont. So either fuck her and let her learn from her experience, or forget about sex with her.
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