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| Author: | Kitty [ Tue Sep 18, 2012 5:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Flirting with an older guy... |
So there is an older man I am attracted to (yes I am a woman!) and he told me that he is "honored" and "turned on" by a "young beautiful woman" showing interest in him, however he also said "While most men would totally take advantage of that" he doesn't think it would benefit either of us. I understand that he's not interested. What I am confused by is why? I just always thought if a beautiful woman showed interest in a guy, he would jump at the opportunity... Is he being honest here or just trying to let me down easy? Thoughts? |
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| Author: | *FlaiR* [ Tue Sep 18, 2012 6:22 pm ] |
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I think he means that he wants a relationship or something more serious. He says that most guys will take advantage of a younger woman by just sleeping with her, which he could to, but he wants something more serious, so he doesn't want to sleep with you just because you're young. Maybe he looks for something more specific in a girl, like a certain personality trait or certain qualities and although looks matter for a man to be attracted to a woman, you're maybe not fitting his current criteria of his ideal girl.. |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Sep 18, 2012 6:32 pm ] |
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Maybe he was intimidated by what you would look like naked, send me a picture and I'll determine if that's the problem |
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| Author: | Mr. Assertive [ Tue Sep 18, 2012 6:47 pm ] |
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depends on the age difference. He might be at a different point in his life and he assumed that you do not have enough experience and you can't relate to each others lives. |
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| Author: | Crypto [ Tue Sep 18, 2012 7:49 pm ] |
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What is the age difference? I was dating a 23yo when I was 40. Honestly she was great to look at but she didn't offer much beyond that. Give me a confident 35yo any day... Peace... |
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