naww naww naww, she closed the damn door on you haha.
So you reinitiate with
"Who do you slam the door harder on, me or the jehovahs witnesses?
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| Author: | elle [ Tue Sep 18, 2012 1:32 pm ] |
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Hello all, Im looking for some feedback on what happened with a girl I met, any pieces of advice is appreciated . Friday: 1st Date, Got on well she invited me back to her place, I told her another time. She texts me after, we arrange to meet the next evening Saturday: She picks me up from where I kissed her goodnight. We go back to hers and I tell her about this place central so we head out. Sunday: She text me in the morning saying she wants to see me. I go over and we have sex. Monday: We spend time at hers, she gets emotional talking about how other guys dont treat her right. Tuesday and Wednesday she calls me after work and we talk for a while on the phone. She comes over to mine on thursday, we go out to the park, then back to mine, bumps into my mom at home she kisses her, then we eat out and back to hers. We have sex its all going swimmingly, fun you know the good stuff lot of dopamine, laughing, eating etc. Now she tells me her parents are coming over next week and shes free monday, I tell her alright but I may be busy and we'll see. She text me monday during evening saying if Im not interested. I tell her lol just a little busy, how are you? She texts back ok x Later at night I text her sounds like someones missing me, we'll meet up sometime this week. She texts me that monday was the only day it'll have to be next week and I tell her ok well if your free thursday for a bit let me know. I dont text or call here. She texts me a week later saying "this is the last msg im sending you cause i think your just not interested! You have my number, best of luck with everyting. I dont reply to her cause I was truly busy, but I see her msg and decide that I want to see her so i go to hers to talk and she says shes busy and closes the door. I head home it begins to rain and I get soaking wet. I guess I deserved it lol She texts me right after saying that she really liked me, and felt/feels that I want interested with lots of these !!!! and that she texted me in the morning and that I dont reply to her msgs. I reply saying I wanted to talk to her and that Im going home causing Im getting soaked. That was last week. I know I didnt show enough interest. Of course I want to see her again but I know you guys may tell me to move on. Any thoughts. Cheers, Elle |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Sep 18, 2012 2:16 pm ] |
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DEAL BREAKER SHIT TEST! She "FEELS" you didn't show enough interest, so she wants you to chase HER! Instead of doing it her way though, try showing renewed interest! Blow off her crap, and reopen her in a cocky/funny way! |
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| Author: | elle [ Tue Sep 18, 2012 2:30 pm ] |
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Thanks mate I may try this out, I feel like she wants me to chase her but I dont do that. Any good suggestions before I start searching the forum?! I guess its up to me as she works in fashion I can personalize it etc A week is quite early, remember she closed the door on me but I didn't act upset when she texted me after with her excuses. Appreciate the responses! |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Sep 18, 2012 2:37 pm ] |
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There is some funny good shit here Bro, tailor it to your style: list-of-text-messages-game-vt21175.html?highlight= this one is killer: get-her-heart-racing-from-this-simple-t ... highlight= Good luck! |
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| Author: | elle [ Tue Sep 18, 2012 3:28 pm ] |
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Hahah Cheers heywood appreciate it bro Ive come across these before, hesitant that I wont get a response at all .... what's the protocol in that case? Perhaps a statement is better? Im digging this, will send it tonight: Me: "I need to ask you a serious question x" Her: "What is it? x" Me: "It's really important and your answer could change everything x" Her: "Ooo really? What is it?! x" Me: "You sure you want to answer it. Its really important? x" Her: "Yeah I think I do, I'm nervous now x" Me: "Ok then here goes........................... Do you actually like Step Up or did you just want your tongue down my throat in the movies ? Just saw it was terrible lol |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Tue Sep 18, 2012 4:28 pm ] |
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Quote: Hahah Cheers heywood appreciate it bro
Yes absolutely that's the correct frame, as long as it fits "your" style!
Ive come across these before, hesitant that I wont get a response at all .... what's the protocol in that case? Perhaps a statement is better? Im digging this, will send it tonight: Me: "I need to ask you a serious question x" Her: "What is it? x" Me: "It's really important and your answer could change everything x" Her: "Ooo really? What is it?! x" Me: "You sure you want to answer it. Its really important? x" Her: "Yeah I think I do, I'm nervous now x" Me: "Ok then here goes........................... Do you actually like Step Up or did you just want your tongue down my throat in the movies ? Just saw it was terrible lol |
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| Author: | elle [ Tue Sep 18, 2012 4:51 pm ] |
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thats tough im very laid back, your right it needs to look congruent, i dont talk about aliens etc I bust her balls in person and have teased her via text before, we just haven't seen each other properly for a couple weeks before she got all needy. I think I upset her thats why she said she was busy and closed the door on my face. Headed to the gym, would appreciate comments or suggestions guys, surely there has been a success story among our pua family. Cheers ! |
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| Author: | elle [ Tue Sep 25, 2012 9:04 pm ] |
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I decided not to text. Met an older french woman on sunday, its funny how the importance of the girl I mentioned has gone dramatically down in my mind! I have previous girls Ive hooked up with still on my fb, this old girl included: what do you guys think of deleting them, I have just left it as it is and not bothered (there are lots of girls on my wall etc but Id rather they not know what im up to or have to bother with keeping it up to date cause of work) Do you think deleting/ hiding parts of your fb is DLV? |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Wed Sep 26, 2012 12:24 am ] |
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No I don't, I don't delete unless I see signs of bullshit. but I do "block" ,to much drama. I don't update much except to put up a DHV status. Constant updates are for chicks. |
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| Author: | elle [ Thu Oct 25, 2012 1:27 pm ] |
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Thanks for the response heywood. I havent seen this chick since then, been improving my inner game and reading lots of material and want to reopen her without lowering my value. The text games arent my style but I can see how coming of as funny seems better than a simply "Hey how are you etc". What do you guys think of these reopeners; - Hey hows my favourite fashionista doing" - Haha so I just thought I saw you by starbucks and went up to say hi but it turned out it was this mexican girl lol Whatever I text comes across like Ive been thinking of her. I have been off her radar completley but we are still on facebook (no chats) and DHV with my profile pic etc. Any tips, I dont think freeze outs work after fc. |
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| Author: | glowstik [ Thu Oct 25, 2012 1:32 pm ] |
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naww naww naww, she closed the damn door on you haha. So you reinitiate with "Who do you slam the door harder on, me or the jehovahs witnesses? "
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| Author: | elle [ Thu Oct 25, 2012 1:35 pm ] |
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Haha thats fucking brilliant! But it shows a a bit of Im hung up on it/ Its on my mind Like your thinking though cheers glowstick |
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| Author: | Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Oct 25, 2012 1:46 pm ] |
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Quote:
- Haha so I just thought I saw you by starbucks and went up to say hi but it turned out it was this mexican girl lol
I like this one, I would add "with bigger boobs" but that's me LOL>
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| Author: | elle [ Thu Oct 25, 2012 2:08 pm ] |
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thats genius bro... she told me she had a boob job so youve just customised it for me right ther This is the way forward, Cheers guys Im either getting a fuck you or a positive text back either way best be free of the outcome as Ive learned One last note, should I add my name at the end of the text to avoid whos this or leave it and if she asks say "George Bush I know text small chested gals" etc
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| Author: | elle [ Sun Oct 28, 2012 11:15 am ] |
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Appreciate the love Glowstick and Heywood I texted her yesterday asking how she was, no cocky funny one liners I thought fuck it She texted me this morning calling me a strange man and that she good at work etc she asks what have I been up to... Im beginning to realize how important texting is, what do you guys think ... comfort through text >escalate> set up meet up for halloween/ give space etc Thanks again |
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