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Author:  mapleleaf [ Mon Sep 17, 2012 4:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Need help with my classmate girl
I met this girl in my class, she is actually in 2 of my classes. We hung out once, for an hour. I socially kinoed her, intentionally touched her face one like a small poke (socially). I really like this girl, but what should I do next? She told me a lot about herself, her school, her parents, brothers, her hobbies. How long do I have to wait before I tell her that I reallly like her? How should I do it? Any ideas?
Author:  TrippAdvice [ Mon Sep 17, 2012 4:28 pm ]
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Don't wait another second! Or:

1) she will get swooped up by another guy
2) you will enter the friend zone

Tell her you wanna take her out on a date to dinner. Use the word DATE, so she knows what this is all about and to stay out of the friend zone.

If it doesn't work out with this one YOU WILL find another one. Abundance mentality. Kick ass bro!

-Tripp
Author:  mapleleaf [ Mon Sep 17, 2012 4:36 pm ]
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Don't wait another second! Or:

1) she will get swooped up by another guy
2) you will enter the friend zone

Tell her you wanna take her out on a date to dinner. Use the word DATE, so she knows what this is all about and to stay out of the friend zone.

If it doesn't work out with this one YOU WILL find another one. Abundance mentality. Kick ass bro!

-Tripp
Actually, I looked her up on facebook yesterday, and noticed that she has a boyfriend, but she NEVER mentioned about him during our convo. We talked a lot, and it was NEVER her boyfriend. She told me about her summer, her parents, but never about her boyfriend. What should I do if she brings up her boyfriend next time we meet?
Author:  TrippAdvice [ Mon Sep 17, 2012 5:02 pm ]
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Don't wait another second! Or:

1) she will get swooped up by another guy
2) you will enter the friend zone

Tell her you wanna take her out on a date to dinner. Use the word DATE, so she knows what this is all about and to stay out of the friend zone.

If it doesn't work out with this one YOU WILL find another one. Abundance mentality. Kick ass bro!

-Tripp
Actually, I looked her up on facebook yesterday, and noticed that she has a boyfriend, but she NEVER mentioned about him during our convo. We talked a lot, and it was NEVER her boyfriend. She told me about her summer, her parents, but never about her boyfriend. What should I do if she brings up her boyfriend next time we meet?
I would say forget this one altogether if she has a BF. There are plenty more women out there. You don't want to start chasing one that is taken or try and break them up. Let it lie and move on.
Author:  Skish [ Mon Sep 17, 2012 5:07 pm ]
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we girls sometimes "Forget" to mention our boyfriends when we are chatting up a guy we have some interest in. Maybe her relationship isn't that great or whatever, she is testing the waters and doesn't want to chase you away with her BF chatter. However know that if you do get with her she will probably do the same to you when things get a little boring.
Author:  mapleleaf [ Mon Sep 17, 2012 5:20 pm ]
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we girls sometimes "Forget" to mention our boyfriends when we are chatting up a guy we have some interest in. Maybe her relationship isn't that great or whatever, she is testing the waters and doesn't want to chase you away with her BF chatter. However know that if you do get with her she will probably do the same to you when things get a little boring.
so, i should just give up on this girl. what the hell?
Author:  TrippAdvice [ Mon Sep 17, 2012 5:38 pm ]
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we girls sometimes "Forget" to mention our boyfriends when we are chatting up a guy we have some interest in. Maybe her relationship isn't that great or whatever, she is testing the waters and doesn't want to chase you away with her BF chatter. However know that if you do get with her she will probably do the same to you when things get a little boring.
so, i should just give up on this girl. what the hell?
When she brings it up ask her how it's going. Be straight about it. If she wants to give you the hint that she may like you, she might say that it's not going well. At this point you will have an opportunity. But, if she describes herself as being in a great relationship or "in love", then yes, drop it.
Author:  Skish [ Mon Sep 17, 2012 5:41 pm ]
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so, i should just give up on this girl. what the hell?
I'm not saying that. If she's leaving him out she's probably interested, but if that sort of thing bugs you I'm just saying to take it into consideration. I pretty much agree with TrippAdvice.
Author:  synergyz [ Tue Sep 18, 2012 9:56 am ]
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Skish wrote:
we girls sometimes "Forget" to mention our boyfriends when we are chatting up a guy we have some interest in. Maybe her relationship isn't that great or whatever, she is testing the waters and doesn't want to chase you away with her BF chatter. However know that if you do get with her she will probably do the same to you when things get a little boring.

THIS


It's your decision to make but honestly, do not go out and ruin sucessful relationships.

If you know for a fact that she's unhappy, then you can go with it.

If she brings up her boyfriend, ignore it. Change subject. DO NOT SAY BAD THINGS ABOUT HIM OR HOW MUCH YOU ARE BETTER. This will make her defend him. Say something like how sweet, i bet you guys are ment for eachother and will marry eventually... I bet he's the sweetest guy ever... blah blah exaggarate a lot. Because she'll most likely deny some stuff herself like: well actually he's not that blah blah blah.

But try to avoid talking about her boyfriend in general. Most of the times changing subject will do the thing.
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