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| Author: | orioke [ Mon Sep 17, 2012 5:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Shifting from opening to #close |
Hi, So basically I have been getting really good at opening and building rapport by mirroring body language, but I need to know where to take it after I have opened them. E.g. Me: "Hey excuse me do you know where 'so and so' is? I'm new around here" G: blah blah blah Me: Playful neg "you don't look like you're too sure, I should probably get going" And by that stage I body rock and the girl is IOIing me and trying to bring m,e back into the conversation, but I don't know her to #close once I have opened her. So basically, how do I escalate once I have opened/playfully negged her? Also a big one I need to know, how can I initiate kino very subtly without making it seem too obvious? E.g. i don't want to brush a girls hand or something and have her realise that I'm doing it purposely and freak out. Your thoughts? |
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| Author: | IwantEasyLove [ Mon Sep 17, 2012 6:46 am ] |
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Okay. Okay. You're thinking about it wrong. I was just talking to a girl Saturday and I wasn't thinking about her number at all. her and her friends are about to leave and then she comes up to me and says we need to exchange numbers. You're goal when you approach a girl is not to get a phone number, its to demonstrate value. When you demonstrate value you don't you dont have to worry about the number it comes to you. Most importantly, most importantly. if you approach a girl with the number close on your mind you are susceptible to looking desperate. You are susceptible of taking shit, of getting dissed and shit tested and submitting to those shit tests. When what you want is a number, you're looking for something, but when your trying to demonstrate value. When you are demonstrating value you are giving something. You have what she wants. This abundance mentality will empower you. Stay strong |
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