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| Author: | cunning_stunt [ Sat Sep 15, 2012 4:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Do you ever change tactics based on her personality? |
Just wandering if you ever do the Yin and Yang thing. i.e. a girl is shy so you are very upfront and direct.. or a girl is coming onto you.. you play indirect. etc.. |
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| Author: | mapleleaf [ Sat Sep 15, 2012 5:56 pm ] |
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every woman is different, if you try teasing a really average looking insecure girl, you will get blown out. but if you come in as a gentleman, a cool guy, she will give you her time of the day. bottom line is, during your first 5 min of interaction, see how the girl is. if she is a fun type, tease her more, if she is a serious type, be a cool guy. under any circumstances dont be a goof, thats a turn off for all girls. |
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| Author: | PUA Reality [ Sun Sep 23, 2012 6:05 am ] |
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I try to refrain from doing tactics to a minimum level but yeah you obviously have to calibrate based on what your getting. You have to use common sense of you want efficient results instead of trying to interact with girls as if they were all the same. The main calibrators I use are there comfort levels (both kino and general talkative comfort levels) and logistical calibrators. Just use common sense and know when you have to water down certain things due to the situation you have. |
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| Author: | stevejabba [ Sun Sep 23, 2012 5:02 pm ] |
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You should calibrate to her personality to avoid offence or frightening her (for eg, I am very dominant but some asian women are a little afraid of this). Women all fundamentally respond to the same things once you get past the "surface" level behaviours. Also bear in mind context. Anyway you learn to read this with experience. When to push, not push , etc |
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| Author: | HeavyRota8tion [ Sun Sep 23, 2012 6:57 pm ] |
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Short answer: Nope. Long, succinct answer: Trying to adopt somebody else's personality infers that you aren't comfortable with who you are. It can come across as supplicating behavior, and above else can subconsciously communicate you're of lower value (the irony of trying to prove your worth to another). Be who you are, its much easier, more authentic and hence more attractive. The reality is some people will like you, and some won't for whatever reason (don't waste your time with those who fall in this camp). By allowing your authentic self to shine through, you'll likely notice more people gravitating towards you (provide you don't have a negative mind set), and will more effortlessly produce a reality of abundance rather than trying to manufacture it through techniques, routines, and validation-seeking behaviors. |
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